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writes:I'm a size 34A but sometimes 36AA fits me well too - well only when I 'stuff' my bra to make my boobs look bigger. I just feel so crap about my boobs, well some of the time anyway and I get so conscious of my boobs when there's this beautiful girl with a bigger bust than me gets more attention from guys than me! I'm only 16 and I'm naturally skinny and I can't help but be skinny and I know that that is what's causing the issue. Is it only fat girls who have bigger boobs? My mum would go mad if she hears me mention getting breats implants AGAIN!Would push up bras be better on me?I do get complimented about them sometimes and I know that other girls would want to be skinny like me but I feel like I'm not good enough! And if I could have anything the world then it would be bigger boobs! My friends think I'm mad as well, I don't get why they love their boobs when I'm a bigger size than them. But my real question is...Do all guys like big boobs?
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reader, Overture to Don Giovanni  +, writes (6 July 2009):
 i personally prefer nice, natural boob boobs that are not too big nor too small, instead of those large fake ones that don't look right.
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reader, RetroFashionista +, writes (17 May 2009):
RetroFashionista is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for the advice TalkingHelps, nicole19 and the anonymous writer; I think I should just make the most of what I've got.
The anonymous post most certainly made me feel good about my bust...THANK YOU!
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reader, TalkingHelps +, writes (13 May 2009):
 oh btw, the development ofbreast tissue is not really to dow ith how fat you are, if you're thin andyou start eating more to get bigger boobs, you'll probably just put on weight on your stomach,and no darling i don't think any sort of size is better or worse , though ifyou feel more comfortable and sexy wearing push up brahs....wear them!
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reader, nicole19 +, writes (12 May 2009):
 no!! bigger boobs are not better i am a size 32b and im almost 20! i thought the same thing about my boobs until i met the most amazing guy that loves me and my body the way it is. Plus think of everytime you go running they are going to be bouncing everywhere and they will get saggy while little boobs will stay perky!! yah!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2009): Ok this is gonna sound up myself but Im just saying it like that to get my point across...
im a 17 year old girl with barely A cup boobs and i have to say that im really extremely hot and get guys attention pretty much all the time- so much thats its really annoying mostly. And i have a bf of a year + and its been just AMAZING.
Here's a list of reasons why BIG BOOBS are bad(no offense to girls with big boobs out there)...
1. they are more likely to be veiny, pimply, hairy...etc.
2. they look good in bras... but out of them- have you ever seen big NATURAL boobs out of bras? they are all saggy and floppy and dead-looking its quite sad really
3. they can cause back problems, posture problems, running problems, hugging problems- cant cuddle as close to BFs, problems with finding the right size clothes...etc.
4. Most of the guys that perve on them- are nerdy, ugly, shallow-minded losers that probably have a porn addiction and could never get a real gf or just dirty old pedafilish men
5. They have big nipples- sorry to anyone with big stretched looking nipples but ew!
6. they usually come with stomach fat... and just general fat
... and i could on but i think its time to move on now...
ok all thats really general stuff- so no one get offended ok and big boobs are nice too- but there is alot of truth in there :)
Now here's a list of reasons SMALL BOOBS are better :)
1. perkier!
2. cuter- coz theyre smaller. Sexier
3. easier for guys to hold and play with- not all spilling out of their hands and floppy- can quite easily be a turn off for guys
4. usually come with slim, atheltic, toned figure- which is very accepted and considered quite sexy in society today...
5. smaller boobs= more sensitive- can get more sexually intimate
6. Guys love nipples- and perfect little pointy ones are considered the best kind- not stretched ones that bigger boobs tend to have
7. smaller boobs means you can get closer to your partner ;)
8. theres alot of flattering clothes for small boobs and a slim figure...
9. look at models... ETC.
But seriously... although theres all these bad points for big boobs and small boobs, they are seriously BOTH really nice-looking to guys im sure if they are straight and focus on your good points and just be glad that your not fat! you seriously dont know how bad it is for 'bigger' girls.
Most of them mgiht seem like theyre flaunting their 'big boobs that guys love' and you feel insecure about being 'flat-chested'- but inside they might be looking at you and your 'slim body that guys love' and thinking that your flaunting it and feeling insecure about 'being fat'!
Its all in your mind! Just love yourself and love life and be happy! You are beautiful! :D
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reader, cls1990 +, writes (20 April 2009):
 not only fat girls have big boobs lol
Im a size 10 and my boobs are a 34G
I would much rather be soo much smaller than what i am, it does attract a lot of unwanted attention, i get backache & its hard to find tops that fit me!
as for men, i dont think they prefer either & to be honest if all their basing a relationship on is a bra size then its not going to be a good relationship! My boyfriend has told me he prefers smaller boobs, it cant be that big a deal though as we have been together 18 months!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009): its not only bigger girls who have bigger boobs, im quite skinny uk size 8 and im a 32DD there are days when im happy but there are other days i just cant help but to wish they where smaller!! bigger breasts are not as desirable as you would think so specially in the summer!!
also it can be quite pleasent at times as it attracts unwanted attention.
and to answer your question you cant make the assuption that all guys like bigger breasts as its not true..
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009): every guy has his own preference when it comes to breast size. my preference would be size 32c but anywhere between a b to d cup(any bigger is a bit of a turn off). if a guy doesnt want to get to know you cos of your breast size then he isnt worth it. you mentioned getting implants. i would suggest you do as you mentioned and where a push up bra for a while (am sure there are some female readers that may know other options), when you turn 18 your mum wont be able to stop you getting implants, by waiting you'll have two years to try other options and see if you change your mind. also some guy find implants a turn off, i personally prefer natural.
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reader, melaniiie +, writes (18 April 2009):
 hey hun
dont worry i would rather have smaller boos i am 15 and i am a 36 e and trust me its not all its cracked up to be i get picked on at school and to be quite honest it dosen't get you noticed well not me any way what i am trying to say is don't do something to drastic just because you think it will impress guys caue in my experience it doesn't
hope this helps x
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reader, jay12toes +, writes (18 April 2009):
 Not all guys like bigger boobs, i have 2 friends who like them small, they say they only need a handfull. Everyone has differant taste so you have nothing to worry about. Besides theres still plenty of time for them to grow.
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reader, satindesire +, writes (18 April 2009):
 No. You already know that not ALL men love big breasts. There are three billion men on the face of this planet, and asking a question like that would be painting all men with the same brush.
Do all women think blonde guys are better? Do all women like to eat the same things? Do all women like the same shoes?
Do you see what I mean now?
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