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amazingness32
writes:Dear Agony Aunts,I'm an average teen, in an average relationship. This new boyfriend I've been dating for about a month now seems totally into me, and I'm totally into him!!....there is just one problem...I'm scared that when the moment comes to have th first make out session, I'm going to end up making him drownd in a washing machine. You see, I've NEVER made out with someone before, and I need some tips or guidelines!! what should I do to better prepare myself?!?!(besides practicing on the mirror =P )thanks in advance ;] Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2008): hey well im a guy and honestly it just comes naturally. dont freak out if u dont do greaaaaaaat the first time ur special pearson will uinderstand and if they love you they wont mind =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2008): when you first makeout it is will diffrent but try the best you can and if you are worried in spitting in his mouth always swallow even if it isn't your spit, good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): hey, dont worry about it. if you think the time is right,...then go 4 it! im an average teen also! my boyfriend thinks its ready 4 us 2 make out also and i also want 2, but i think we should just wait a little longer!im totally into him, but i think we should just w8. same thing goes 4 u! =D if u think the time is right, go ahead and make the move ^.^
love, melissa
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): well just relax if you realy like this person making out should be fun,easy,and not stressful
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008): i have the same problem right now. i have been looking for tips on the internet...just for guidelines, you know? but the thing is, i want my first make out to be special, and not something that other people on the internet have done. so just stay true to what you feel, and when that special time comes, just be comfortable and confident.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007): the best prep you can do is to not think about it or worry about it to be honest.
cos the less you worry about it the more you actually enjoy it when it happens.
i was worried about my first time but i kinda found it was human nature and i knew exactly what to do without thinking about it
just follow your instincts and get really into it
:) good luck hope yuou have fun
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2007): Try msn.com, it has a bunch oh hints in the dating section.
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reader, Mistify  + ♥, writes (8 November 2007):
 Hi there
I take my hat off to you for waiting until now to "make out"
This way, it should be more special.
Kissing is different for everybody. Everybody prefers a different style. Some guys like a lot of tongue, some like less, but here are the basics.
a) get closer to him, but slowly, don't bump into his face. Good idea to tilt your head slightly while you close your eyes
b) part your lips slowly, don't wait for him with an open mouth - breathe with your nose.
c) mirror what he does. If he kisses you softly, then kiss back softly
c) not too much tongue (as in, you don't have to stick your tongue out), just explore the front of his tongue with yours remembering to mirror what he does.
Trust your instinct. I remember my first kiss, but cannot remember if it was good or bad?
Have some confidence. You've seen it in the movies a thousand time. When the time to make out comes, you'll be sure to know what to do.
Good luck
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