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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008): well you should sweet and flirtyish.And be kind nice and and a good litener so just wait a little longer you will find that guy trut me and i am ten and i am giving out advice you will find the guy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, miss-gemma  +, writes (16 July 2008):
just be yourself around him,yes you can flirt a little bit,
but most boys like girls who dont act like there someone else.
if you know he likes you then ask him out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008): ok i'm 14 and my first kiss when i was 11 ... think .. anyay .. don't be afraid to make a move .. if you know he likes you then jus go for it. i mean i have kissed loads of boys its not realy a big deall.. lol but if you realy care about your first kiss make sure its with someone special .. make sure you are comfortable with him and the situation. don't be scared incase he thinks you are a rubbish kisser he is probably thinking the same thing!!!! my first kiss was ok but not the best.. you improve as you do it more.so remeber DON'T WORRY OBOUT IT!! your time will come sooner or later. [private information removed by moderator per site guidelines]
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2008): i have had the same problem as i am also 14 and i have never kissed a boy , i feel as if i will only kiss a boy if i really like them or if we have a future in a way .but i wouldnt worry about kissing boys if you think about it your only 14 and my advice is if theres someone you like try the 'boychallenge'1)get them to know your name2)get them to notice you ( dont emmbarres you , say something when your with a group of people and your all talking and hes there say something that makes him smile and look into yuor eyes 3)get him to kiss you ( you dont have to do this step but if you want to go out with him i suggest you do )4- get him to ak you out - this could be after months , depending on how it goes.but remember dont just kiss any random boy because all your friends do , wait until you have found someone you really like then , see any signs of them liking you .but most inportranty if there already in a relationship dont try and break them up it will only make them angry at you .but then if they break up after a while you be the one to comfort him , and then knowing eachother will turn into friendship , then friendship will turn into trust and trust will turn into love or something maybe a little less deep then love because were only teens at the end of the day !have fun with the boy challenge , its working for me !xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008): i'm also 14 and i have never kissed a boy or had a boy friend (And its not cos im ugly cos im not lol). And i am allways saying to myself why havn't i been kissed. But after a while i kinda got used to it and told myself that my time will come.
Hope you get a boyfriend soon xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008): i fancy this boy (were at the same school and form) and i have done for a LONG time and we used to have golf lessons together and i tried to flirt with him and when my mum came to pick me up she used to say he fancys you. But after a while i got bored of the lessons and quit. And then after a couple of weeks we kinda started to drift apart and he hardly speaks to me now, and i REALLLLY like him. What should I do?
anonymous - age 14
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2008): Hello i'm 18 and i'm Gay .. and i met this guy whos 19 and we went on a double date to the cinemas!! went really well and everything we kissed laods of times heald each others hands it was just perfect and felt right. He told me he doesnt want a relationship because he has just come out of a 3 month one 5 week ago.. His boyfriend cheated on him wit his friend. I'm absoloutly gutted because i got butterflies when i kissed him it felt so right. I dont want to just be friends with him i want so much more. I told him i will defferntly get with him and he will be mine he laughed and said cool. He said maybe one day we could be together, Have you got any tips for me please?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008): there is this guy i like we always hang out with each other and he's really funny people say he has a crush on me and he does cause he's brother gave me his journal that said he liked me should ask him out or just intill he's ready to ask me out.
love,shannel
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008): there is this guy i like we always hang out with each other and he's really funny people say he has a crush on me and he does cause he's brother gave me his journal that said he liked me should ask him out or just intill he's ready to ask me out.
love,shannel
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): well wen your writin look up at him with out moving your head and if hes looking at you do a little grin and look down again
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2008): I think you should be your self ask him if he likes you if he says yes then walk away slowly and hope that he has questions because then he will wont to know more about you if he says no just said it was a dare thanks bye
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2008): i have this boy 'the hottest'but my friend likes him too help meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007): i am a lot like you i am 17 and when i was 15 my friends were talking about sex.well i couldn't join in on the conversaion becuase i was a vergin.so i went and found some
guy and i had sex with him.i regret it so much now cause i did not save myself and wait for the perfect guy.i had to have an abortion.now i can't forgive myself.so now i go and get on web sites like this and go to schools and talk to kids that think they have to prove themselves.i droped out of school last year.you would think i would be doing teribly.i go to 10 different schools a day to share my story.i want to tell you think twice.find the right guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2007): don't do that.find someone u like, then get them 2 ask u
2 be his gf. then after u get comfortable with each other
then u might kiss.don't do it just 2 talk about it, make
it count. remember don't fall 4 peer pressure.
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reader, babygurl19  +, writes (11 December 2007):
hi i am 16 well the first thing is get to know the boy first but if you and the boy that you like have been frinds for a while that is how i met my boyfrind 3 years ago he will make the first move ok i was friends with my boyfrind for almost a year and now we are dating been together for almost 3 years now he was my best friend well good luck and i hope you get your fist kissed.... xo xo xo
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2007): Hey im 12 years old i have kissed a few guys myself so here is how you get what you want... First of all you need to know the guy. Guys dont like when girls come on to the before they dont even know you. So... you should talk to him, say hi or hows it goin or if you have his number you could send him sweet text messages. But dont think that you can plant a smooch on him yet!After you and him have talked for a while you should asked him out on a date......... in my opinion first dates always end with a goodnight kiss!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2007): That's a good question! Of course i'm 10 and have kissed a boy, well it was a surprise kiss! anyway, don't try to get a boy to kiss you, when the time is right, it'll come! :-DLove,Molly
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2007): dont worry u will find the lucky guy one day be patient
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2007): I am 18 years old and when i got my first kiss i was at a hotel birthday party and the guy i really liked who is now going to be marrying me was there. I had avoided him all night until it came time to play the games and everything. It was my freshman year and we had some upper class people there with us so we came up with good games. The one game that we played was spin-the-bottle! He made it to were it turned to me. And that is how i got my first kiss. Just play something like that. And the whole dating thing! Ask him to the movies or help with your homework, just flirt with him during that time or talk to one of your friends that is really good friends with him. Just give it sometime then start talking to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2007): Walk up to him and hold his hand during a passing period. Don't say a word, let your hand do the talking. Slowly, cup his hand in your hands and bring it up to your lips. Kiss the top of the hand softly, and look at him in the eyes. While you kiss his hand, look at him in the eyes. then drop his hand and walk of.
That's hot. It always works for me, guys love that shit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2007): hya, i was 15 when i first had my proper kiss and i was terrified that i would do it wrong...mine came about during a game of dares and i just went for it...tell your friends to do something like this and i bet that neither you or him will regret it...
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): Be yourself show him your talents with out making it too obvious that you like him. Flirt with him and talk to him. That will get him to like you
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): hey im 13 and i think that its ok if u have not kissed a guy let i have and its not big deal...wen your friends start talkin about it juss stay quite and how to get a guy to go out with u r kiss u is first to become friends and then about 2 months after hard working flirting ask him out!!!dont be shy and BE confident about it then after u date for a while go in 4 it and he wil back!!
i hope this will help u
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2007): Okay,, first of all..you shouldnt have to worry about what your friends are saying. You cant make a guy kiss you or go out with you.. only if they have feelings for you. Plus if you pressured someone to go out with you.. they might not have feelings for you. and in the end of that.. you wouldnt be happy..
just be happy for who you are.. you dont have to kiss a guy to be accepted.. maybe your friends think that... but show them you dont... :]
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2007): this is tricky just be yourself and keep doing quick sharp looks at him/her. smile and laugh wen you do it if he/she laughs or smiles back, make shure you are alone and make the first moove, e,g "do u like me" if they say yes(if its a girl) ring your fingers thrue her hair. if its a boy put your hand on his sholder it will go from there. :) hope this works it worked 4 me
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2007): all this stuuf is cool but what i say is to have fun and flirt. its harmless and fun and you cant make anything worse w/flirting
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007): hey im 14 atm and ive had loads of kisses and strangly enough i regret them all i never stay in a realtionship
i think you should wait till somone nice comes along if it helps 3% of the population ends up alone you wont be one of them.hope i helped xx and my cousin was 21 when she first kissed somone xx shes realy happy she waited x
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2007): Ok--first of all you have to know if a boy likes you. If not, start flirting. Chat it up girlfriend! Smile and laugh a lot(don't worry if you have braces, in fact, boys actual like to kiss girls with braces--its a new experience for them). When you and the guy you like are alone, try to lead him to a place where you know no one else will be. A great thing to do is to lead him to a place that you want to "show him something" and tell him how that place is important to you. And as you finish your last sentence(he would have been watching you the whole time by now), then let your words fade off. Slowly get closer and closer to him. Tilt your head the opposite of his. Press your lips(chapstick is the best way to go for kissing) against his, grab his neck(you can work your hands on his neck, back, ears, chest, hands--anywhere), and slowly begin kissing. You can stop it at a close mouth, or if you both are pleased with what is going on so far(trust me, you'll know--he won't stop kissing you!)slide your mouth slightly over his lips, and dart your lips through his. Lick his lips and then as you guys both start frenching, make sure you intensify your hand movements and your deepness. Once you guys are starting to get more and more comfortable in this kiss, go deep for it. Focus on his hands, press your body tight to his, feel his breath on your face, run your fingers through his hair. Get completely lost. DO NOT HAVE SEX. You are not old enough. But you can go as far as you want in kissing as long as you don't take of all of your clothing and start grinding him, you're ok. Plus you'll have him hooked. For the next few days smile at him--and don't kiss him. He'll practically be BEGGING for more of that first kiss. Knock em dead.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2007): hi im 13 and if a guy dosent notice you then hard on him u want someone that notices you for who you are just be your self and your time will come hope i helped x
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007): Well lots of people will give you different answers, i'm jst 15 and my answer is 2 when your with a boy that yhoo like flirt like any thing and then draw attention to your lips like touch them gently just dont look like a idiot or look at his and make it oveois but not to much. if he likes you then stuff should happen but other wise get really drunk with bois n it'll happen but ur young so dnt do any thing more!!!
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reader, T.C +, writes (12 September 2007):
hiya dont worry your self about it your time will come and when it does it will be that whole much more special cuz u no u wld have waited for the right 1 to do it with.ur friends may have already done it but ur bigger for not doing it and once u have u will be the 1 that can say how much u enjoyed it cuz it was with the right person so dont fret because your time will come.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2007): hey dont worry about not having kissed a boy ur time will come and when it does it will feel that whole lot more special because you no u have waited and its with some1 u reli want to be with. so dont thret cuz if ur m8s have done they will soon get bored and u will be the one that has got it all to come.good luck and hope u find that some1 to share ur 1st with
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2007): yes i do noe yu have to go up to the guy and dont be scared and become his friend first and then after a while yu lean in and kiss him but make sure yur breath smells good or is minty
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reader, richka +, writes (1 September 2007):
yes flrit but dont be to egare
waer sexy ware to make the person notice you and then pass by and say hi tohim in front of his friends hi boys in a sexy way
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007): you can't magically get a kiss, you have to work for it. seek out a guy that is appealing you and start to talk and become friends and then maybe if he starts to like you as a girlfriend he will deffinitly try to kiss you
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007): Hey, well..Im 13 and Ive Had My First Kiss..Look Out For Guys Who Keep Eye Contact with you a lot and who also seem to like being close to you.Making The First Move Is Up To You..If I Was you..i would ask some of my closest friends about it they could help more than you think.Hope I Helped A Bit x
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2007): hay dont worry about it i have got this guy and i am giving him all the signs but it is so not working. but today he told me he loves me in this voice that he never uses unless he realy means it maby a kiss is coming my way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007): YOUR 14! You don't kiss. Wait, not at that age.Thats bad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007): I have the same problem as you. i am 16 and have not done anything with a girl. but from what i have seen from my friends is that it is usualy the girl who has to make the first move.
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reader, vpdragon0 +, writes (20 August 2007):
 hey im 14 years old and when i had my first kiss i just went with the flow.. i rele loved making out tho. its alot of fun actully. My Girlfriend and I are really taking it slow.. like last two days ago i kissed her. and she said she not ready.[first kiss for her]. and i respected that. She wasnt ready or just want to take it slow .. thats what she told me.. so i just wait for her until she ready... becuz i dont want to rush or do anything stupid to lose her.. she rele something special.. so if a guy try to kiss u .. if ur ready just go for it.. its no right or wrong to kiss someone.. only depending what they want.. so just relax and have fun!.. hope it helps..
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2007): im 14 to and i havent kissed a boy yet ever but dont worry your time will came just like mine will just have pashants
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reader, -x-too-shy-x- +, writes (10 August 2007):
just relax about it let nature take its course just try a bit of flirtin but not to much otherwise they will think your desperate just enough to make them notice you then see how it goes from there
hope it helps plz tell me if it does
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2007): just don't make a big deal out of it if he likes u he will be the one to kiss u if he doesn't well scru him ya........
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2007): hey whats up
you dont have to kiss any body if you dont want to and to get a guy to dat you olny thing you have to do get in to what do intest and get him to notice you
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2007): Yeah, Flirt but dont make it obvious as if u desperate or greedy, only do it if both of you like each other. So dont force it to someone who doesnt feel the same way 4 u.U'l feel humiliated
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2007): I think that you should forget about what your friends say and you should wait for the right time to go out with a boy or even kiss him because that is a very special time that you should save.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2007): most guys are confused on when a girl wants to be kissed or not. you have to show the boy that you want hiim to kiss you. the most blunt way to do this is to tell him you want to kiss him. but that takes alot of courage! and if hes not into you, you face rejection. is he smiling when hes around you? does he lean in close to you when your sitting next to eachother or walking together? those things can show if he's into you or not. if he is then you should stand close to him. lean in close to him. its good to wear some purfume too bc guys love girls that smell good. if your walking together, try gently brushing your hand aginst his a few times. he should grab it and hold your hand but if he doesnt then try catching his and interlocking your fingers. look him in the eyes. like really give him an intense flirty look. and dont forget to smile alot.a trick that you could try is to ask him to help take the back off your earring. you could say it's stuck or you cant get it off. in order to take it off both of his hands will end up touching your neck. look him in the eyes and smile. be quiet though. if he says anything or starts to talk, interupt by whispering his name or saying it softly and look into his eyes. then he's sure to kiss you. but if he doesnt take the hint you can lean in. by this time you should be standing pretty close to eachother. if you do this, the kiss is sure to happen. good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2007): yes email them and ask them how they feel.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2007): well u shoud pratice kissing first then before u ask ask him if he whats 2 kiss
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2007): hey girl you need to flirt let him know that you are VERY interested in him earn his trust and become his friend that is a good turn on. be honest and if you are a brave person say on the phone that you want to kiss him you are a girl stand tall and be who you are no one esle guys hate fakes.
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