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*ayinah
writes:hi, does anyone know any tips on how to be a good muslim wife? thanks.
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reader, bigfamily1  +, writes (10 August 2009):
Being a good Muslim Wife is a very big and wonderful task that Allah, our creator, has given to only us a women. We must learn about our role and always ask His guidence. I am a mother of 5 and a wife to a wonderful man. I am still learning about my role and pray that I will never stop learning until the day Allah takes me off this earth. I think some of what I have learned is this.... it starts with loving your husband, praying together, talking about Islam together. Allowing your husband to to be the leader of your home and family but yet helping him in this role. Taking care of your home, money that he makes, cooking, children and such. NEVER talk behind your husbands back. When you have a problem go to him and speak to him and ask Allah to help you resolve your problem. Keep his secrets. Have fun with him and laugh with him. Look nice for him. Be his friend and help him in his life and with his problems. Pray for him and make dua for him. Help him with his Islam. Waking him up for Fajr and helping him with his fasting. Help your children to love him and respect him and to obey him. There is so much about being a good Muslim wife and mother. If you want to e-mail me I would love to share more with you. :) Angel
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reader, pricilla  +, writes (26 October 2008):
1.understand yourself as a female firt and know your role.2.understand your husband as a male.3fear God and avoid that which is forbiden.4.keep your house clean neat and beautiful.4.make sure you always smell good and look good.5.cahnge your routine.6.learn to do diferent cooking and decorate while serving.7.be educated on sex and learn how to tame your husband in bed.8.be sweet and smiling.9.be kind to veryone.10.love,respect and intermingle with the people of your husband.11.respect your husband and his property,talk about him well in his presence and his absense.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): This is the wrong site to ask about this question, contact your nearest mosque, talk to your boyfriend and family and get advice from people and websites that share the same religion as you........
Read the Koran and follow it's teachings, try to be peacefull and pray to Allah, learn as much about your religion as possible, so that your husband dosen't oppress you and try to make you believe that women are under his feet and not the equal creatures they were created to be.
PS: Excellent answer Wizard, per usual....
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female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (18 June 2008):
 If you were born a muslim, don't you have a mother to learn from?
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female
reader, layinah +, writes (18 June 2008):
layinah is verified as being by the original poster of the questionby the way i am a muslim already and i was born muslim.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008): Firstly make sure you are muslim! then everything else will fall into place.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008): Just be yurself. Trust me im muslim. Most of these ppl dont know what theyre talking about. Just pray wen ur supposed to. Idk if ur hubbie is controlling if he is do wut u think is ryte
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (17 June 2008):
Make sure you are okay about becoming someone's property and a second class citizen.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (17 June 2008):
 Be submissive and do what your told.
Sheesh I dont know mate, it sounds like you are buying into the wife being there to cater to the whims of your husband school of thought. If that's what you want I guess it's a free world otherwise the best way would be to contact women's islamic groups.
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reader, miyarie  +, writes (17 June 2008):
1. respect your husband and treat him with love, care and honesty2. do not flirt around 3. be religeous4. be sweet5. be good at sex. this is the best part. you have to come up with differents tactics in bed, i.e today u rub honey on his face and lick it out while in the first stage, 2mrw, u give him a desert like masserging his weakest points after sex.6. be a smiling wife and dont fight him even if he does fight you7.be a good cook and dont repeat meals often8.be kind to his entire relatives9.dont be a demanding lady and be reasonable, financially10. pray to Alla to keep you from harm and satan. good luck
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