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Any tips for approaching my crush?

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Question - (28 May 2014) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 May 2014)
A female United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

I recently had a dream that I was getting married, well kinda. Well for some reason I was at my middle school ( currently in the 10th) and there was this semi long hall way to get to te front doors. Well I was walking towards the front doors and my friends were standing on each side of the hall, just clapping. They were congratulating me and smiling. Then when I opened the front doors I saw my crush(maybe even true love) standing there outside. He grasped my sides then he started leaning down as if to kiss me, then I awoke. He's a freshman and we have two campus's at our school. One for freshman and the other for 10-12th graders. So next year I'm going to see him again, and I really like him. More than a crush. I actually talk to him, but I haven't talked to him since the beginning of the school year. That's all because we're at different campus's and I just told his friend that I said hey and his friend said he said hi back. We've had face to face conversations but that was 2 years ago. He asked my friend to tell me hi one time, that was sweet :) What should I do next year when he comes? Should I approach him or wait till he sees me? Any approaching tips? and what does the dream about getting married mean?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (30 May 2014):

So_Very_Confused agony auntThe dream does not mean he's your true love or that you will marry him or even date him. It means you had a dream about marrying a boy you have a crush on... perfectly normal.

As for how to approach him... he's just a person... so don't make any special plans or arrangements to go out of your way to run into him but when you see him you smile, make eye contact and say "hi"

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A female reader, HardToExplain United Kingdom +, writes (30 May 2014):

HardToExplain agony auntWell, I just searched for what marriage in a dream meant and I found this on DreamMoods "To see a marriage in your dream, signifies commitment, harmony or transitional period. You are undergoing an important developmental phase in your life." But honestly, I wouldn't take a dream too seriously.

Could you possibly talk to him online if you have an account on facebook maybe? That way, you can build a friendship easily and get to know each other. But, it's even better if you can see him in real life and talk to him.

Also, don't spend all year now waiting on this boy. Like Ciar said, don't put this boy up on a pedestal. You may be having all these feelings for him and unfortunately, he may not feel the same way about you. It's nice to have a crush and all but unrequited love can leave you heartbroken. If I were you, I'd just try to push him out of your mind for now and that if you see him at all, just say hi and maybe start a conversation? Hope everything works out for you.xx

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A female reader, Ciar Canada + , writes (30 May 2014):

Ciar agony auntTreat him as a friend unless he gives you reason to suspect he feels the same way about you.

There is nothing overly sweet about him asking a mutual friend to relay a 'hello' to you. It's what people do. You did the same with one of his friends.

Don't build this guy up so much in your mind that if things don't work out, you're devastated.

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