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Any alternatives to wanking? PS I don't have a girlfriend.

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Question - (27 May 2008) 9 Answers - (Newest, 15 June 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 16-17, Sir Whetty writes:

Ever since last year where a friend of mine said that most males wank 3 times a day I have been wanking at least once or up to 5 times a day. But am getting a bit bored of it now and am wondering what a guy can do to himself to get pleasure without a girlfriend.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2008):

yeah do it with another guy.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008):

It sounds like you're wanking a lot of times a day because your friend told you that most guys do - which is a rather silly reason. Wank when you feel like it not because you think you should be.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008):

your not giving your self a rest if i do it more then one ever two days then i hardly have eney pleasure from it. and you should not get involved with a girl sexualy until its leagle so just keep doing what your doing but less often.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008):

Whack your penis with a stick. Then try wanking, its great.

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A female reader, A Cappella United States + , writes (27 May 2008):

A Cappella agony auntOh, there are lots of things you can do; some of them might even help you meet girls. Physical activity of any kind, playing a sport, taking a dance class, run. It will help you do something to keep from being bored and could even improve your physique, making you look great.

I'm NOT saying that wanking is bad -- as a mater of fact, I think it's healthy. But five times each day, in terms of the TIME it takes away from being out in the world, isn't good. Go out and do something that will let you meet people!

Good luck.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008):

The more you do it, the less powerful it's going to become. Take 2-3 days break and give it a try again.

Ever tried to put your hand to sleep and do it after? Or with a pillow. Cold hands is nice too. Still the same result but gives a different feel while doing it.

Don't think that a GF is the answer to your problem, depending on the girl ... you may end up wanking even more than ever before.

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A female reader, Emivia Ireland + , writes (27 May 2008):

Emivia agony auntI don't think your friend was right.

Give yourself a rest. It seems like you are pleasuring yourself because you feel you should, rather than because you have been having urges to.

Try not to wank so much. Give your body a bit of a rest and you will soon find it much more pleasurable rather than boring.

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A male reader, q1605 United States +, writes (27 May 2008):

q1605 agony auntThere are ways guys get their jollies without women or wanking, but you don't want to know, and I don't want to go there. Actually I ain't sure I can get there from here but I've heard some guys get into things that can't properly be called sex. If you can come up with a traditional way to get your rocks off. and its without a woman or your hands and it's not a totally degrading experience check into it. It would be how you might make your first million

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A female reader, BeXsTaR United Kingdom +, writes (27 May 2008):

BeXsTaR agony auntwat ever makes u happy reli if u dont wat a gf u shouded reli get involed with a girl just for sex it may end up wrost

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