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writes:im a 14 year-old lesbian, and ive been going out with my first partner for a good few months. its a long distance relationship - i love her sooo much and i know she loves me too! anyways, we're planning to have sex [dont talk me out of it, im ready] and ive been thinking about it a lot. shes coming up to visit and we've hinted that that is when we're going to do it. my question is this; what do i do with myself? i obviously know WHAT to do etc, but im a virgin and shes not. shes 17 (three years older) and i know she cares for me, i have no doubts about that. but .. what should i do with my pubes? ive tried shaving but i came out in a painful rash. my gf tells me she doesnt care, but I do - i feel so selfconcious!should i dress up my lingerie differently?im not sure, i know i might sound naive and not ready, but i am and im going through with this.Anybody got any tips or advice for my first time?thanks 3
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reader, agtorange  +, writes (20 June 2008):
 Don't bother shaving, you'll just get a rash,and you can get ingrown hairs too, not pretty.
A trim is good, and I wouldn't worry about fancy langerie or anything either.
If I were you I wouldn't think it through too much, that'll just make you more nervous when the time comes. Just go with the flow.
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (19 June 2008):
 Shaving is an art form. don't expect to get it right on the first try. just trim for now. thats fine. just don't let it grow to an Afro.
don't worry about lingerie.. but don't be wearing no granny pants, you know?
all i can say is, i know you care for her and she cares for you. but just becareful when feelings are involved.
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