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writes: This past weekend a friend/co-worker told me she liked me as more than just a friend over the phone.well she couldn't go into in to much details,cause her financee just got in the car. yes she is engaged.she has only been with this guy for 8 or 9 months. i tried talking to her about her feelings for me,and i told her i liked her, but she didn't say anything. i don't know if she is to scared to talk about it or what. I am confused and need some advice on what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2005): Why would you even think to pursue a relationship with a woman who is still entangled in another relationship? You should make it clear that you are interested, but if she wants to pursue you, she had better do the honorable thing and end her relationship with her bf. Otherwise, it's a definite no-go. If she doesn't want to end it with her current guy, then save yourself some grief because she's just looking for a fling, in which case her moral base is off-kilter, which doesn't say much about her character. Is she worth all the trouble? Be wise..use your common sense and be careful with whom you hand your heart over to... good luck
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reader, pops +, writes (15 December 2005):
Leave her alone until she ends her relationship with the guy she is engaged to marry. Only trouble will come to both of you. When she has ended that, she will talk to you. She just may not feel it is appropriate to have feelings for you when she is engaged to another guy. Let her work it out for herself. Date someone else, and if she decides to call you, you can make up your mind then as to whether you want to start seeing her.
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