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writes:Me and my ex have been broken up for almost a two months now. I know he is messing around with another girl. I had tried to win him over numerous times. I tried everything in my power to get him to be with me. But i'm to the point now where i've given up. I know he still cares about me. I always see him catching a glimpse of me in school and things of that nature. Deep down inside I know he still cares and part of him probably always will. He truely is all I think about. I have tried talking to other guys, just to mingle. It honestly doesn't feel right to me.So really, I just want to know...-Am I doing the right thing by having absolutely no contact with him?-Am I completely insane for hanging onto him, EVEN WHEN he is sleeping with another girl?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): You need to move on, stop thinking about him and concentrate on your own life and future. Make sure that you keep your days filled and stop going over things in your head. When he pops into your head, then blot him out with thoughts of a new outfit, holiday, anything. You have to have no contact with a person to get them out of your system, well that is how i manage.
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reader, Tremor  + ♥, writes (28 May 2008):
 Having no contact is probably the best thing you can do to get him off your mind.
Find something to distract yourself- take up a hobby, visit friends, anything. It doesn't necessarily have to be another guy - people move on at their own speed.
Because he is an ex, and I'm assuming you have been intimate with him, there will still be a part of you that cares for him. It's always hard to move on.
You are /not/ completely insane, it's natural to have a few pangs when you learn an ex has moved on.
Best of luck to you.
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