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Am I wrong for thinking about her this way?

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Question - (19 June 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 20 June 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I can't tell what is wrong with me!

I can't stop thinking about this girl yet it's not her body or something like that that i'm thinking about.

i just wonder every second what she is doing and how she feels and i feel like i want to make her better somehow.

I tohugt i was in love but my friends say that i should like her body and voice and way she acts but thats just not what i think about.

Also i heard that she gave some guy a hand job and i' not jealous or anythning its just now i just think about some assholes disgusting face as he uses her.

What is wrong wit me?!?!?!?!

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A female reader, scrazy Canada +, writes (20 June 2008):

scrazy agony auntAwww, I think you're just a little infatuated with her...Or you view her as a younger sister who you want to protect.

Either way, it's very sweet and nothing to be worried about; there's nothing wrong with you at all.

And your friends are pigs. Don't listen to them, you're going to make some girl very, very happy to be with you because you think of more then just their body.

xo

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A male reader, Anonyman United Kingdom +, writes (20 June 2008):

Anonyman agony auntThere is nothing wrong with you at all. Any girl who is worth being with should value your morals, it's rare for a teenager to look for more in a girl than just her body or for sex. Once someone does go with you she will see that she made the right choice, and as you get older these values seem to come into effect more. The problem is right now at your age and mine is making the girl see that she would be better off going with someone like you. Rather than someone who moves faster, tells her she looks great and has a great personality etc. Just to get her into bed and eventually upsetting her when he's got what he wants. Stick to your guns anyway, you're on the right track i think.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2008):

There's nothing whatsoever wrong with you. You are different, yes - after all, rare is the male who values a female for anything more than her body and how it can be used, especially at your age. But you are different in a way that is wonderful - and that will bring you much more happiness in relationships than the pigs who think like your friends do will ever know. You're special. Be proud. Girls like special ;)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2008):

Your friends are silly billys.... They're too young to know what they're talking about.

I wouldn't say "love"... That word is thrown around a lot now a days and you're very young to be in love... But I'd say that you like her a lot.

It could even be love.

There's nothing wrong with you. You're sweet and compassionate. You'll make a great boyfriend one day... whether it's to this young lady or not.

Good Luck. x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2008):

Maybe you just see her as your younger sister. And you feels as though you need to be protective of her. Thats very likely.

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