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writes: internet thing.last month i met a guy on the net,got along very well, he gave me his mobile number, so we could text. I didn't at first but then i did, we sent texts even got steamy and sexual, and he'd send me a text during the day, but if i want to get a text i have to be the one to start.Since then he has started a new job, and now he hardly ever chats to me, he is training and working long hours, but when i send something he doesnt reply, only days after. says he's busy, didnt have time must get together soon sumtime for dinner, last i heard from him wa 3weeks ago.I just feel that if he really wanted a relationship he'd be equally interested and send something without me being the one to start the chat.am i wasting my time? if he wanted to he could text me something not just vanish,should i try again send him something or not bother?
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reader, gladyz +, writes (5 September 2006):
i think its better not to bother your self bout it' internet relation sometimes works' but most of the time its only use for fun and past time just to have somebody to talk. try to find somebody personaly. good luck.
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reader, Tine  +, writes (5 September 2006):
 i say that you should just move on and stop texting him for a while, and wait until he texts you. Working long hours and training all the time may really take it out of him and maybe hes too exhausted whenever he gets home. So let him do the running
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (5 September 2006):
 I agree with Baby Girl. If he were interested, he'd make an effort. Forget him.
Good luck!
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reader, theskycastle +, writes (5 September 2006):
 I would move on. I went on a few dates with this guy I met online, and I thought we were doing fine. Until one day I stop seeing him online and realized he's looking for other girls on the dating site. I know what's happening. I emailed him for the last time asking how he is, and then he emailed me saying he's got too much on his plate right now, and is not ready for a relationship. It was very nice of him to say that though. Yes, it was harsh, but that's much better than just disappearing into thin air. What I learn is when a guy's into you, he will do anything to make time to talk to you. My boyfriend now talked to me online for 16 hrs for a couple of days when we first met. With your case, just think about it as he's not the one for you. You're probably looking for someone who would commit to a relationship. Someone who has time to spend with you. Just think about the man you're meant to be with is still out there.
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