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writes:This is incredibly embarrassing, so this question is for girls and doctors only!The problem is that I'm a bit 'tight' if you know what I mean... I find it incredibly painful just to insert a tampon, it has put me off masturbating, and I'm dreading first time sex as I fear it will be excruciating!What can I do to make tampon insertion easier (it's really impractical having to use pads all the time!)And how can I prevent it from hurting in first time sex?
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reader, diva girl  +, writes (17 May 2008):
girl i feel your pain. i have he same problem. while you are masturbating start off slow, start with one finger... than two... than three... and so on until it starts to hurt badly. mark that number down and the next day try it again and ee if you get more. eventually you will be looser and everything will be more comfortable for you. hope this helps and everything works out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I went to the nurse and she had a little look around and stuck a cotton bud in and it felt kinda weird but not too bad and she advised I took some time to 'get to know myself.' So I took her advise and had a bit of a feel while I was in the bath and I managed to get my little finger in with barely any pain or discomfort! I found that unlike what it tells you in diagrams, and unlike my mum who is very 'slanty', I go almost straight up, which is where I think I was going wrong. My period came on this morning and I managed to use tampons successfully now I knew where I was going and I wasn't dry down there. I even wore one to a dance class and I could barely feel a thing! I actually forgot I was wearing it!
Thanks for the advise guys xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2008): hiya,
every1 knows that it hurts first time round nd it is worryin but dont worry. if u relax there will be less tension, nd enjoy it.
also try mini tampons if it still hurts go see ur GP.
best of luck
xxx
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reader, lovehate +, writes (7 May 2008):
 If you are really unhappy and worried about the situation go to the doctor and they can put your mind at rest. Sex for the first time is painful, i aint gunna lie to ya!! But you are not alone.
Tampon wise... maybe you are tense and just not used to them yet. RELAX when you insert them this makes it much easier and less painful. Lots and lots of people use mini tampons, try them! Don't panic!
All the best. : )
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008): hi hun well u shouldnt be embarrassed ive been w/a few guys and im now w/my bf and hes big and from the few guys ive been with he tells me im tight to this day and thrs nothin u can really do abt makin the sex not hurt its guna hurt a lil bit and also w/the tampon try pushing it in slowly it might help if not go to ur doctor hope this helps
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reader, :):):) +, writes (7 May 2008):
I've heard a lot of people say the same. Try to use the mini tampons first, it gets easier with practice and it also helps to be as relaxed as possible. If there is still problem after a while, visit your doctor, they'll have seen the same problem a million times so dont be embarrassed. Same with sex, it can be painful at first but gets easier and less painful with time.Dont worry this is a common problem and your doctor will be able to advise you well.xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008): Hi Hunny
Go to your doctor Ive found you a link to look at it explains many reasons some may not apply to you, My advise is see a doctor about it and then go from his/her advise and this will pop your mind at rest...http://www.groupeelva.org/HTML/articles/article05.html
I hope this helps TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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