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writes:First of all, I have the flu. Anyway, I was seeing a man, and out of the blue he broke up with me. I said ok. We had only been seeing each other for a month. Then he begged me to give him another chance, for two weeks non-stop. I give him another chance. The following week, I come down with this flu I have now. Told him three days ago. Not a text, a call or anything. I'm thinking I should have let him go the first time. Am I right or is my flu messing with my mind?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (19 January 2017):
 I think you are right. Whenever I am sick, it's the times when I see things clearly and make the best decisions in my life. Because then your brain takes over, and your heart isn't going to interfere. Your brain and your logic is taking over because you are sick, so you are saving your energy for what matters most. It becomes very easy to prioritize then, and because you have sick you will have no patience for bullshit. So it becomes very easy to make decisions.
I always trust the decisions made when I am sick. It's usually during an illness like the flu etc, that I will end a relationship. The last three of my relationships I ended while I was sick, because then I saw everything clearly and knew exactly that I didn't want any more.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (19 January 2017):
 Hmm it could be that you are right, or maybe he thinks you are using the flu as an excuse to not see him. Either way if he was really interested he would ask you how you are feeling. The best thing you can do is concentrate on getting yourself better and no more chances for him.
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