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*imisoph3
writes:theres this guy i've met few weeks ago in a club i havent talked to him so when i saw that on facebook he has gave me a friend request and we talk everyday since. his cute really nice and it seems like he really likes me. he is 5years older then me him being 22 and me only 17. Everyday we message each other he sends me all these videos of songs and quoting love parts from it he literally liked all my photos and videos on my profile. the down side he doesnt leave here and he seemslike a really big player. all these girls are sending him kisses and flirtin with him and he does it back. but i saw that it was all a while ago so i dont know if he likes me or not? he is planning on to coming here in 2 months. should i just see what happens or oes he really like me? please help i dont want to waist my time and get my heart broken once again.
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reader, mimisoph3 +, writes (28 September 2010):
mimisoph3 is verified as being by the original poster of the question sorrya actually i've been talking to him and he seems like he actually likes me..his coming down here next month and i will see how it all goes..but thanks for your advice anyways i will watch my back.
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reader, mimisoph3 +, writes (16 September 2010):
mimisoph3 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyou guys are completely right..i imed him last night and he was being so sweet and everything was going great.but then i log on and go to his profile and the same girl that sends him kiss faces umm still does.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (16 September 2010):
 Anything that takes place on Facebook has no meaning in the real world. Him liking a picture or anything else on your page doesn't mean anything. It's the laziest form of non-communication I've ever seen, yet people seem to think it's a huge compliment. I wouldn't take it too seriously.
Also, because he comes across as a player, it makes me wonder what exactly he's looking for in a 17 year old. Five years is a pretty big difference when you're barely out of high school and he's about to or has already graduated college. My guess is one thing, and we all know what that is. Just be careful.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (16 September 2010):
 Just curious as to why a guy who is nearly done or is done with college interested in a girl who hasn't graduated high school..I question his motivation here. Dear, he is what I like to call a man whore or the nicer term ladies man. He loves all the ladies, is super flirty, has lots of "girlfriends", and can't stand to be in a monogamous relationship for too long. In other words, he will eventually break your heart. A lot could happen in 2 months, so see if he stays true to his word and comes to see you. If I were you I'd keep it as friends, nothing more. Don't say I didn't warn you!
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reader, PinkRose  +, writes (16 September 2010):
 Player! you are wasting your time with him
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (16 September 2010):
 He is playing with you just like he's playing with all the other girls. He likes the reaction he gets out of all of you. You are all toys to him. Be really careful when he comes to where you are...........don't lead him on and just treat him like a friend. Be a bit reserved and get to know him as a person first.
Good luck hun and please be safe
HUGS
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (15 September 2010):
You know that big down side, where you said he was a player?! That's the thing you should be paying attention to! I'm sure he does really like you, but I'm sure he likes all those other girls too. Maybe keep him as a friend and take things VERY slowly to see what he wants.
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