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Am I just too sensitive to the touch?

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Question - (20 July 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 July 2010)
A female Canada age 26-29, *ikki Nikkles writes:

Hey everyone! First off: I'd like to say thank you for all the help with my other questions. I really appreciate it and they've helped a lot.

Secondly: I just had my first... Erm, "long" kiss - if you will - with my boyfriend. It was incredible. In fact, I think it was a little bit too incredible. I got pretty aroused when it happened. And I'm sorry to be blunt: but I got a little wet, too. (I'm sorry! But there's no other way to describe it!) Here's the thing: I'm only 16. He's 19. We've talked about how I'm a virgin and he's not, and that I would like to wait until I finish school to do anything. But at that moment, all I wanted to do was for him to make love to me. Is that bad? What can I do to maybe prevent this so I don't go further and regret it?

Please help!

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (20 July 2010):

Honeypie agony auntI think it's pretty normal that your body is reacting to a long kiss. It's be bad if it didn't.

I would talk to him. I think waiting til you feel absolutely ready is a great idea. It may be hard, but if he is worth it, he will wait.

RESPECT yourself. And there are plenty of "stuff" you can do without having sex. Maybe if it is hard to not jump his bones, hang out with more people and be in public places where you can snog/kiss but nothing more.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (20 July 2010):

person12345 agony auntNah nothing wrong with you at all! Sounds fun to me. If you don't want to have sex there are lots of other things you can do to take advantage of the sexual chemistry without compromising how you feel about your virginity. You could have him finger you, give you oral, there's always rubbing through pants. It's not bad you felt like that, the only thing you can do is just not make out a lot anymore if you're worried you'll totally lose control. Do you masturbate? It's a great way to let off some steam. If you have a pre-date orgasm then you'll cool it a little with your guy and that need will lessen. I recommend that to "take the edge off."

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010):

There is nothing you can do to prevent those feelings except not do it! If I were you I wouldn't really be waiting but now you've taken it a step further you just need to step backwards and not do it again. There's no other way!

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