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writes:I am a gay guy who is 38. I have 3 male friends whom I have known for years...all of whom are supposedly straight. All in the group have known I am gay for years and are ok with me. One guy intrigues me...he is 3 years younger than me. He said recently he has never dated a girl since the early 90s. He lives at home still. His mates who have all had girlfriends do not understand why he is always single. An utterly nice guy mind you and not bad looking at all. I never saw him previously in a romantic light as I thought he was a no-go zone. But lately, he sees me to my car after a meal or drinks out and talks to me for ages after everyone else has left. He has paid me compliments lately, says how good it it is to talk to me and I catch him gazing at me when we eat a meal or the group is having a conversation. He doesn't tend to look away either when I look back. I love his wit and I have had a few feelings lately myself. I am not one to have many relationships and pretty shy myself. Am I just imagining this or could he actually be liking me too. Just wondering what people's views may be as I do like him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2010): Thanks very much for the advice. I appreciate it as I care about the guy but would hate to do the wrong thing and ruin a good friendship. Then again, he may be that someone special and I'd hate to let that slip through my fingers. I will just observe the signs for awhile and see what happens. Can't thank you enough. Cheers.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (25 January 2010):
 The way you describe him I think that he could be in to you or maybe testing the waters of his own sexuality. You two seem to talk alot so maybe try to bring that idea into the conversation without bringing too much attention to it. Keep paying attention to his actions around you, I'm thinking that they will continue to get stronger.
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