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Am I infertile or is it my boyfriend?

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Question - (30 August 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 August 2010)
A female South Africa age 26-29, anonymous writes:

okay. Here goes. Im 19 and my bf is 18... We have been goin out 4 thre years now. I lost my virginity to him in the second year of relationship. I have been on the pill for about six months during that second year.

nOW i am off da pill for so long, from the begining of da year. We have sex without using a condom and he cums in me everytime. Should i be pregnant? Well we have sex about 5times in a 7day week... Sometimes we go 4 3to4 rounds a nite. Im jus so confused. Am i da problem? Or is it him? I realy wana have kids someday. All the advice wil be much appreciated.


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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2010):

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thanks kirra. Realy appreciate the help. I just needed reassurance. Kinda scared that i wont give the man i love children that he wants. Thank u so much

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A female reader, kirra07 Canada +, writes (30 August 2010):

It took me a little over a year of having pretty frequent unprotected sex before I got pregnant with my boyfriend. I was starting to worry that one of us was infertile, and decided to see a doctor if it went on for much longer (but then I got pregnant). I wouldn't worry too much just yet. From what I've read, most people trying to get pregnant get pregnant within about 1 year of trying. So keep trying. You can definitely talk to a doctor to get tested. And they can give you advice about how to conceive (when best to have sex, the things you can do to monitor when you are ovulating, etc).

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A female reader, Morrissey-fan United Kingdom +, writes (30 August 2010):

You have to go to a doctor to find this out

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