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Am I in the wrong even though I didn't know he had a girlfriend?

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Question - (17 June 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 June 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I want peoples opinion on this please.

A guy went down on me after we kissed. After this had happened I found out he had a girl friend. I had no clue before the act occured. I hold my hands up to acting "slutty" but other than being slutty, am I in the wrong as regards to the fact that the relationship of the guy and his girlfriend is now ruined?

As many opinions as possible please! then I can gather a kind of average or majority opinion for myself

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008):

thanks so much everyone its a lot clearer now and i feel better

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (18 June 2008):

LazyGuy agony auntNo, he should not have kissed you.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (18 June 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntIf someone is trying to blame you, sounds like they are missing the real 'guilty' party. You didn't know he had a girlfriend. He did. Nuff said.

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A female reader, :):):) United Kingdom +, writes (18 June 2008):

No way should you feel bad. You didnt know he had a girlfriend. Its his fault completely. Dont worry about it. Just think of it as a learning curve, you now know to get to know someone a little better before you become intimate.

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