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writes: Hi there,I'd really appreciate it if someone could give me some good advice on a little thing that has been bothering me lately. The thing is I recently I had my senior prom and as a favour I asked an old childhood friend of mine would he mind going with me, because of last minute arrangements. I felt a little weird asking him at the time, as we had known each other as little kids before and then came that period in life when you don't see each other for years. The night went smoothly however, and I had a great time with him and my friends, took a load of photos, had many laughs, etc. Throughout the whole night my girlfriends kept telling me (not sure if they were serious or not) about how cute a couple he and I made, though I'm not sure if he knows they tease me about him. It sounds a little strange but now that I recall that night and him I feel all flustered and giddy inside. I really like him as a friend and before that never thought anything could ever exist between us, but now I find myself thinking more and more about him.I'm not even sure if I like him because I feel all confused inside. I'm 18 and have never had a serious or casual relationship with anyone. One half of me swoons over the thought of him and would love to let him know of my feelings, but then the other half panics at the first sight of him and refuses to acknowledge him nothing more than an acquaintance. Am I in love or is this just a passing thing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the reply. It's given me some perspective on the situation. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2006): Hi, It's perfectly normal for you to be aprehesive after all you've never had a relationship, Did you feel comfortable with him? did he make you
feel happy? If yes I dont see why you couldent have a special relationship with him, This doesnt mean you have to be with him, you could become his close friend first and see how it develops maybe just play it by ear!
You might not know your true feelings till you spend a little more time with the guy try going out again, if hes planning on asking you out,sugest the cinema or bowling or even just a coffee Try not to be too nevous about this sweetie,Its a good thing! Take care :)
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