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samjayne775
writes: There is aboy I know and we are really good friends. I really like him but don't know if it's love. How can i tell and what should i do? please help me, please? Reply to this Question |
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (21 September 2007):
You, not him, should be deciding the answer to your question. Are you really in love with him? Is he really in love with you? Do you both want the same thing out of life? Do you both have an idea about starting and raising a family? Where do you both want to live? How will household income be earned and spent?
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reader, Uncle_Phil  +, writes (20 September 2007):
 You can bet your boots it's not 'love'. Love is something that grows once you get to know someone inside-out.
Lust is probably more like it, that rush of emotion that tells you that you simply have to get to know that person better and to share some erotic experiences as well as their everyday life.
OK - you like him, but does he like you? He might think you're an immature giggly little girl who fancies him and is therefore a nice target to take the mickey out of with his friends.
If his pocket money allowance allows, ask him if he'd like to take you to the pictures, or a dance, or anything like that. Offer to pay your own way, that way he'll know you're not after his money or what it can provide.
Talk to him, tell him how you feel about him, but be prepared for him to laugh at you. Rejection always hurts, but it's a case of @Nothing Ventured - Nothing Gained'. You could stand to gain. That's looking on the bright side of things.
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