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Am I having a mental block that I am unable to climax with a guy? Even though I enjoy giving pleasure to a guy?

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Question - (17 September 2015) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 September 2015)
A male United States age , anonymous writes:

Bi sexual

I have been straight and married for some 40 years now, but since now ex-wife said NO MORE SEX, I have since have had oral sex with a few men which I have really enjoyed both receiving and giving...

My partners say I'm very good, and have got them all off in my mouth. But I, on the other hand, have not been able to cum.

It feels great and I'm right there, but can not finish. Never had this problem before. Is this all in my head? So to speak.... What can I do to get over this. Is it just a mental block or something? Please help, mt

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A female reader, WhenCowsAttack United States +, writes (17 September 2015):

Maybe you feel guilty inside for cheating on your wife? Does she know about this?

If she is adamant about never having sex again then perhaps you need to sit down with her and let her know that is not going to work for you, and that while you will not leave her you would like to discreetly have relations with others. Maybe getting some of this out in the open will clear your conscience, and you two can have an honest discussion about whether you should remain married.

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