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Am I gay or is it just lust?

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Question - (28 December 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 December 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok i only have sex way guys i like having a cock in my mouth and ass the bigger the better and i have gay sex toys and use then alot. but heres the thing i dont love the men i have inside me. i'm not in the dark my family and friends know i have sex with men but i could never have a relationship with a guy it usjt doesnt feel right so this is what i needs to know if i'm i gay because its just sex.

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A male reader, DavidW New Zealand +, writes (30 December 2008):

Hi,

You are 16-17, you are still growing up and maturing,puberty hasn't finished yet; 20 - 23 years old.

You are going through what most boys go through, it is normal to have those thoughts and desires but you will find that as you mature your interests will change.

There is one other possibilty and that is that you were sexually abused as a young child by a male and if this is the case you need to get specialist counselling as soon as possible.

Feel free to email me at [email address blocked]

I will be happy to answer your questions.

David

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A male reader, Boonridge McPhalify United Kingdom +, writes (29 December 2008):

Boonridge McPhalify agony aunthow can you love anyone you've only known a short time. it probably the case that your picking up men for casual sex.

yes or no?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2008):

In a way some might see it like that, but if your still sure you like women maybe your bi. I think its probably just a fetish.

All the best xx

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