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Am I gay or bi?

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Question - (19 June 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 21 June 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I do unusual things like being in nude masturbation I wanna reltionship thinking of man am i gay or bi?

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A male reader, AvgGuy1 United States +, writes (21 June 2011):

AvgGuy1 agony auntJust cause you masturbate naked doesn't mean anything. Lots of straight guys do that too.

It's the other part about wanting a relationship with a guy that probably indicates that you are at least bi, if not entirely gay.

The key differentiator between the two is whether you wanna have sex with or find girls sexually attractive. If you don't then you're most likely gay.

At your age though, I would think that you'd figured that part out already. Are you still a virgin???

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A female reader, belize United Kingdom +, writes (20 June 2011):

belize agony auntJust confused and unfulfilled need to find the right partner...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2011):

Im bisexual and i had to figure it out for myself in highschool i struggled with i was lez or bi. It took having sex with both sexes to figure it out but i always knew i was attracted to women. So really no one can tell u what you are you have to figure it out on your own. It was easier for me because i knew i was attractted to girls at a young age. From about 7 to 10 i started suspecting i liked women. Its different for everyone.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (19 June 2011):

chigirl agony auntEveryone tend to get nude when they masturbate, dont they? You don't say much about yourself or why you think you might be bisexual or gay. And to be honest, we can't tell you what you are as only you know yourself well enough to decide on that.

It is simple though: do you want to have sex with a girl or a boy, or both? That's really the only thing that determines your sexual preference: who you want to have sex with.

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