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Am I emotionally cheating by looking at another guy?

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Question - (30 July 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 July 2013)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey everyone,

I'm in a relationship with this wonderful guy for 4 months,he loves me,treats me right and takes good care of me! But lately I'v been noticing this other guy who I see around sometimes I found him really cute but I would never approach him,I just think I'm emotionally cheating on my boyfriend because I'm actually considering this guy!I'v caught him stare at me soo many times but I feel bad as well,what do I do?

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (31 July 2013):

Honeypie agony auntNo, it's not emotionally cheating if all you do is look. Now if you start to stalk him in the Internet and chatting him up, then yes you are heading down "emotional cheating".

JUST because you are dating someone doesn't mean you all of a sudden went blind, it doesn't mean you absolutely can't find other guys attractive.But there is a big difference between noticing another guy and then getting involved emotionally and/or physically.

Sounds like you developed a crush on this dude and you need to pay attention to that. WHAT is it about him that makes you gush over him

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2013):

There is always going to be someone smarter, cuter and funnier. Temptations are a part of life. Perhaps you should ask yourself if you're ready for a commited relationship. You're young and should explore yourself and options at your young age, unless you're 100% certain.

Just my opinion...

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