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Am I calling too much? Will he forgive me? I don't know what to do.

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Question - (27 August 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 28 August 2012)
A female Albania age 41-50, *etaAri writes:

3 days were gone and he didnt call me , A year we are together never apart from telephone and calls, every time sayed to each other Ilove you and miss you , and qe really do, I think I have done e little mistake to telling him in the phone , I was doubt about something that he were doing lately ,does he cheating in me but I wasnt sure ,he reduced his phone calls,chatin in msn, and than he told if I dont have time to write you dont worry I am working hard or I am with colleges and I cant pick up the phone , sometimes he became angry with me when I phoned him regullary for some hours sometimes he closed my phone telling me good night , and than I began to cray so much why he is acting like this why , when we loved each other , I dont nknow, last week I told him you are in the computer not in the job , you are laying to me and than he became angry didnt write me any more , I love you , not my sweaty , etc, why I asked him he didnt responde, tomorrow I called him 1o times and than he pict up the phone , i told him please I am sorry about that , I beg him to forget me , but he told me you you broke my heart because I loved you with all my heart and I gave you all my body and spirit for you, than I beg him to come just once to me to see him , and than he acepted that , healme to me at night 80 km distance to see me , we stayed together ,talked but he said that how many time do I have to forget you , I told him every women make sometime mistake because dont know very well his boyfriend , we went to hotel stayed he loved me as before , when I told him do you forgime me now he just said shhhhhh, dont speak, when we apart from each other in the car he kissed me , my hand and lips, than he went home , he wrote me sms that he is at home now and wrote me I kiss you, than in next day when I wrote him to call me he didnt answered me immidetly, i became nervous , called him again and again than he told me please are yougoing to repair your behaiver or not, ok I apologize to him that I will never call him eny more like this ,untill than he didnt call me or text msg me , I am craying every hour because I have don everything for him ,when he didnt work before I have give him money, be respectful, charching phone with credits every time, o my God I am going to be sick very soon , I am sufferin because I love him so much , I know he love me but what happend I dont know, mY heart is broken really I am waiting him to call me ,or what to do because he dont want tospeak on the phone ..

please I need your answrere as soon as youcan ,i AM HURT DEEPLY INSIDE...THANK YOU WHO READS THIS LETTER

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A female reader, Lucky786 United Kingdom +, writes (28 August 2012):

Lucky786 agony auntStop! Take a deep breath and back the hell up girl!!! What is wrong with you??? Stop running after this guy and stop making him your WHOLE LIFE. Look at the way he behaves, he is in a relationship with you but is able to put that to one side and carry on with other parts of his life. You on the other hand have made him your entire focus and when he doesn't respond as quickly as you want him to because he has a life, you start ringing him over and over again. This makes him not want to talk to you and then you get upset and the cycle starts again.

You really need to stop and let him and yourself breathe a little bit. Don't make him the focus of your life. Get out there and live your life. Make him miss you. Make him want to ring and text you. The only way to do that is to leave him alone for a while.

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A female reader, shellycg United Kingdom +, writes (28 August 2012):

shellycg agony auntHi

First of all STOP CALLING HIM make him miss you if his last memories of you are from your constant calls and text, sms etc he will be angry, when a man is angry its the wrong time to call or even communicate, also dont apologise anymore to him you have already said you are sorry a few times this will just make you look needy and men dont like needy women...

When I would call him is in about a week - tell him you had a nice time with him the last time you were with him, and say what a lovely meal you had (if you did ofcourse) but DONT APOLOGISE OR ASK IF YOU ARE GETTING BACK TOGETHER - if you stand back and let him have space then he will come back trust me he will.

Hope this helps.

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A female reader, Anne may Louis United Kingdom +, writes (28 August 2012):

Honey, if he dont appreatiate it, don't waste your time. Don't call or text him for a few days and ignore him eventually he will come around to his senses and feelings, but before your try my advise see a few others don't risk it if you don't agree ;) xx

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A female reader, lalina United States +, writes (28 August 2012):

Stop worrying. sometimes in a relationship this happens. what you need to do is go out with your friend, keep yourself busy, dont put to much energy into worrying about him. Remember you come first if he loves you and care he will come back.

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