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female
age
36-40,
*ittleone
writes:My man wrote his ex fling from years ago a message on facebook that said hi sweetheart how are you? after meaningless chatter between them both for a bit (each wrote 2 messages) out of the blue she writes "i think about you everyday, call me, love always and forever" he says he hasn't talk to her in frever and that i'm making a big deal out of nothing. we have a baby and i just dont know what to do? the messages they wrote back and forth were nothing serious i just don't know what to do about what she said. am i blowing this out of porportion? please be honest
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008): seems to me like they might have been in contact privately. but then i don't know either of them so you have to make the best judgment you can. see if there are other signs that they've been in touch and i'd be annoyed if he were to keep in touch after that message if i were you
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reader, Samhamss  +, writes (16 June 2008):
With comments like that, it could just be joking, but it could also be serious on her part. I think you should set him down and have a serious face to face talk if you are truly worried about his loyalty, but above all, remain calm, don't become frantic. If he can look you in the eye, and say it in a normal tone that these comments mean nothing, then you should be fine.
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