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Am I bi-curious??

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Question - (16 March 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 1 October 2009)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

Im straight. But id say 99% because i like looking at other peoples breasts, and i like all sorts of porn, even lesbian. When I was younger I went through phases of thinking I liked girls but I was only about 12 then. Grown out of that I dont have feelings for girls but I do enjoy lesbian porn....?? Whats this. Bi-curious?

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A female reader, DocSyntonic United States +, writes (1 October 2009):

There is an explosion of new research results available to USAmericans regarding sexual information. There is more than the X Y chromosomes that determine maleness and femaleness. There are other genes that have locations on them that code for protiens that regulate the chance of having male hormones and shape or female hormones and shape. When I speak of shape, I mean more than the outside body. The polar female brain is smaler than the polar male brain. I am introducing the concept of a continumum from one end totally male to the other totally female from one egg fertilized by one sperm. There are fused double eggs after each have been fertilized by separate sperm. This is within the first 7 days. Much more viable if within the first 36 hours after conception. If these inseparable twins are fraternal, they are of two minds male and female. How strongly in which direction depends, I speculate, on the other genes on the "non-sexual" chromosomes. The She/He in the USA is always desiginated female because none of the USA AMA schools know of this research. You who are now enlightened may transfer to a European internet and read the research first hand. The evidence is becomming overwhelming that some of it is leaking on to the USA Google and Yahoo. To stay away from porn use chromosome, genes, alleles, and q arm.

It is possible for a She-He to impregnate a female and this has happened in history. He-She is known as an hermaphradite. The penis is of a normal size. In the last 40 years surgery has been used to "correct" these boys at the parents request. There is some good medical reason, the ovaries if they are present have a high percentage of becoming cancerous.

Only recently has one X Y girl allowed to be a girl since all her chromosomes that we know of so far came back and she did not have important male protien producing alleles on certain loci but she had female protien producing alleles in other loci on other genes that should not have been there. She will be spared being called a homosexual.

I hope I have shed som light on how complicated human sexuality really is. Doc. Syntonic

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009):

i have the same problem. i like guys but i watch lesbian porn at times and sometimes wonder what it would feel like and try to imagine me with another girl. although im young, (13), i am going through a phase. i like boys but also sometimes like girls. i dont know if its just a time all people go through or if im bi i just have to see.

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (17 March 2008):

LazyGuy agony auntWell if you are bi-curious the you are curious about women. So are you? Do you wonder what it is like, what their breasts feel like, what it is to be touched by them, to touch them?

One explenation for lesbian porn enjoyed by straight women is that lesbian porn is about the women enjoying themselves (or at least acting like it) not just the guys pleasure.

Are you perhaps simply attracted to watching other women, like yourselve, being pleasured?

I wouldn't worry about your tastes in porn, it is just fantasy and it might NOT be the fantasy of YOU making love with another woman.

And hey, if you are straight and love watching lesbian porn your BF will be over the moon!

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (17 March 2008):

TasteofIndia agony auntI agree with the other Aunts. I think that our sexualities are in the end, determined by our ACTIONS not our thoughts. Do you have interest in being with another woman? Because hey, girl, I watch a little lesbian porn here and there... and boobs are fascinating - not to mention, gorgeous. However, the thought of ME actually BEING with a woman... that doesn't so much work for me.

So, unless you find yourself actually interested in pursuing some physical action with a lady, I don't think that you're really bisexual. Perhaps a teensy bit bi-curious, but hey - aren't we all just a teensy bit curious sometimes?

xx India

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008):

I think anonymous is accurate. It depends what you think when you either do it or imagine it. Either way, human behavior needs touching, and when it isn't present, we may do it or fantazies it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008):

Maybe not. I enjoy lesbian porn because I can imagine stuff being done to me by a man (when I see what is being done to them by a woman), even though it's females doing it on each other.

You might be bi-curious. I like looking at other female's butts now and then.

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A male reader, Gay Boi D United Kingdom +, writes (16 March 2008):

Gay Boi D agony auntwell, im gay lol

if you were gay then you would want to do things with women, not just look at their breasts, to be honest i think your comfortable with your sexuality (as are nearly all women) and are just curious about how big/small other women are

D x x x

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