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writes: I was with my b.f over the weekend..he is able to do laundry at a relative's house b/c they have a washer and dryer..he said oh if we are going out, might as well stop over there and put the sheets (off the bed) in and wash them. And my b/f knew he would be at his apartment next week b/c he has some things he needs to fix etc..am i being paranoid into thinking he wanted to change the sheets in order to be able to use them with someone else? But we did actually use the new sheets that night..and he saw one spot and he tried to get it out(which he usually doesnt try to do)..he said we just put these on and then well at least its on ur side of the bed in a joking way..being paranoid or something to just let go? Reply to this Question
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reader, eddie  +, writes (6 March 2007):
 You could make a case out of this but do you relly want to? Anything is possible but is it likely? You could worry endlessly here.
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reader, vina_101  +, writes (6 March 2007):
 Yeah you are being a little paranoid. He was just innocently changing the sheets, that's all there is to it. Nothing more. Don't look into things too much you'll only cause yourself unecessary stress. Always look for the positive in these situations, don't always think the worst. Sometimes you just have to overlook things and give people the benefit of the doubt. So let it go, ok? xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2007): I think you are being paranoid, to be honest. How would you feel if you were changing your bedsheets and your boyfriend thought you were cheating on him and even came on the Internet to ask for advice? You seem to have very little trust in your boyfriend and without trust a relationship is bound to fail sooner or later.
You shouldn't even need to "just let go" about this. It shouldn't even be a thought in your mind. You need to come to trust this guy so you can truly enjoy your relationship and experience love. All the best.
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