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writes:All my friends have gf's and like they are always together, but i dont. I feel so lonely and it really hurts, they all have someone to love them but i dont, and its starting to make me depressed. I'm so shy around girls i cant talk to them like other people can. It just makes me so sad that i'm all alone i want to be able to talk to girls, i want to find a girl that will love me.. i need help - this is really starting to bother me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): Meh.
I wouldn't worry. Chances are they'll be joing the Bachelor ranks again before long.
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reader, vsnod  +, writes (4 April 2008):
 I was very shy in High School too, but I know it can be much harder for boys to talk to girls than for girls to talk to guys. Maybe you could make another friend or find something to fill your time. Be patient (I know easier said than done) but things will only get better from here. Trust me, I hated High School, but College was the best time of my life. Or you could... keep your fingers crossed that the relationships don't last. :) just kidding.
And if you really, really are depressed, maybe you should find someone to talk about that too. I didn't realize I had depression until I was 23 years old. I wish I would have gotten help for it earlier, I would have been a much happier person in high school and I would have had better self esteem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): theres no need to be so sad about it i went through that phase u jus need some confidence and realise that its okay that you cant talk to girls quite right yet its normal jus remember to speak up n show her your interested..but also remember not to try n get a girl jus because everyone else has one everyone goes about it at their own pace.good luck
-michael
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