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WizardOfWaz
writes:Are age differences an important factor in relationships? If it is older guy then it doesn’t seem to be an issue but if it is an older woman it matters (unless you are a Physics graduate then only matter matters).The fact is people (and relationships) are far more complex than the intellectually lazy finger-pointers would care to admit. This wiz lost his virginity at 18 to a woman of 36 , and his next Close Encounter Of The Sexual Kind was with a married woman of 43. Society will readily condemn these older females for “abusing” young waz’s “innocence” but then again our culture is more obsessed with thrilling tabloid pornographic headlines rather than the real facts of life.So what is so wrong about an older woman getting it on with a much younger guy?Purely in sexual terms there does seem to be a compatible fantasy between a young mans innocence and an older women’s experience from the males point of view. And from the mature females emotional side how can she resist a fella who thinks she is some sort of Goddess ? He is lying there even after sex and still ogling your body as if it was the work of Rembrandt. Your stretch marks or tits and arse going southwards doesn’t bother him as he gazes in wonder at the most glorious work of art that was ever created.The only reason young guys think you and your body are so feckin wonderful is because you and your body are so god-damned wonderful. So, if you ever feel deprived of reminders that you are a Real Woman and temporarily short of a Real Man, why shouldn't you women get a bit of younger man action to tide you over if that is what you want? Or are we all getting a little obsessed about what people think rather than what people need?RegardsWaz
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reader, mandy7 + ♥, writes (9 May 2008):
 Well wiz mate what can I say my fiance is 23 and Im 45 Im in love and in fecking heaven hun XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX (:0)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2008): I am an attractive 60 year old woman and am attracted to a man at work who is in his 40s, and he's attracted to me as well. I'm so flattered because I don't look 60, maybe 50. However, we haven't had sex yet, don't know if we will, all the wrong conditions exist (we're both married, and we work together) - creates a NO-NO situation. It's like forbidden fruit, the more you can't have it the more you want it. I'm enjoying the fantasy of making love with him. He thinks he's a real Don Juan, perhaps his feelings for me will humble him a bit, since we can't act out these feelings right now. We'll see what's ahead - there's lots of time.
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reader, Danielepew  + ♥, writes (1 May 2008):
 Wizard, I agree with you very often and here I also do, and then I disagree. I think that age alone doesn't mean a thing. The stage of life you're in, that matters, man or woman. If you have two 22 year olds, but one with children and the other wanting to enjoy his youth, you have a problem, don't you?
As to your Encounters, You Hit The Nail!
BigSis: Those guys weren't lying to you at all.
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reader, BigSis + ♥, writes (30 April 2008):
 Waz...you always leave me in complete awe whenever I see your posts regarding us girls. What a sensistive, thoughtful and wonderful wizard you are. I like the way you think.
I also like the way in which you detail this article ~ and it's all true about how younger guys portray the more mature woman when being intimate with her.
A short story about me. When I was 38, I had a 'thing' going with a 23 year old, I wasn't his first, but he'd compared me to the girls he'd been with, and wanted to keep the relationship going. {God, I hope my kids don't see this, 'coz he was only 6 yrs older than them, AND he was my son's friend!}
Anyway, I couldn't believe it, {or my luck!} I thought there must have been something wrong with him. You see I'd had twins 18 years prior to this affair, and my tummy had stretch marks, quite alot infact, plus I'd had a caesarean, because my babies were much much larger than your average sized multiple births, {one was 7lb the other 8lb 8ozs, and I'd gone full term}. So you can imagine how bad it must have looked.
I was always conscious of my tummy, and to be honest, I still am, but not as much.
This young lad said he didn't care what my body looked like, but he cared about the fact that I'd given him something he believed could only have ever happened in one of his fantasies. Ok, you may be thinking...'She's blowing her own trumpet here'...but do you know what?...truth be known, he was right, because I dated other guys alot younger than me after him, and they all felt the same.
They weren't bothered whether I had the figure of an air~brushed, catwalk model or an oversized hippo, {and no ~ I don't look like one of them, thank you very much!}
They gave me that confidence to believe that it wasn't about how my body looked....but how I wore it, and how I used it, and by having that confidence it made me feel and look both fitter and younger.
So now I'm looking forward to a long and healthy sex life, whether it's with someone older, my own age, or with someone much younger, I don't really care, because at the end of the day, I know how to make a partner feel good, because I feel good about myself.
: )
BigSis
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