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raynbopyde637
writes:hey, so my partner and i broke up...and im havin trouble dealing with it. i think i have accepted it.but i feel w may get back to gether later, but then again, the way things happen i dont think so. i mean we had a good relationship...fought every now n then..been thru a lot. we had a recent fight about the flirty friend..thats one of my past questions..check it out. anihow were together almost three years. we have been broken up about a week now. and she is already calling to check on me, and wanting to have conversations...about hr family and so forth, and its hard on me. i cry..so my question is how is she already okay? kus befor she had said some of the hurt ful things like im not in love with you, but i guess i believe it this time. so how come she wans to be friends. i cant imagine being her friend not yet at least. anyone know why? i was in love with this woman..we no longer live together, i still get sad at times. so i dont feel i should talk to her, until im heald....once again...how come she is ready to be friends..? or is she missing me?
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (7 June 2007):
 if she is calling to talk about her friends,family problems etc, she may be finding it hard to deal with the fact that your not there to help her through that anymore, then again she may wanna have a friendship with you are be missing you.you only broke up recently and cos u were together for so long she could be finding it hard to completely cut you out of her life. this is hurting you and you cant deal with this not knowing wats goin in with her. you need to talk to her face to face and see exactly wat it is that she wants from you. you wont be able to completely get over her if your not sure where she is. talk to her, tell her how you feel, and also tell her wat you need. this will benefit the both of you and you will be able to get on with things. good luck hun, and im sorry that you broke up.email if you need to xxx
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reader, shortybabes  + ♥, writes (7 June 2007):
 You won't find out whether she wants you back or just wants to be friends with you. Next time she calls you just ask her what she wants, like if she just wants to be friends or not.
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reader, jomana  +, writes (7 June 2007):
 i think you should be straight forward with her ask her , if she's over you then tell her that your sorry and that you need your time before talking to her again
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