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writes:my boyfriend if 30 and i am 22 we have known each other for 4 years but have only been in a relationship for 5 months. it seems to me he is quite shy. i had to take the first step and say i had feelings for him. and did he want me the way i wanted him? he send mixed signals at times, like he tells me he want to live in australia or america when he leaves the navy,i have told him i am falling for him and welllast wednesday he took me to meet his dad and step mum. its the first time for me to meet anyones parents(to be vetted by his family). this is my first real relationship.as we were talking to his dad he said the i was the first girlfriend he had met. my question is this... is he wanting this to be more serious? he still seems quite distant.i think about him all day and night. i always remember my dreams and he is in every one of them.I am going crazy!
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reader, Big boy +, writes (12 January 2007):
 Sounds like a nice guy and he seem’s to be interested in the relationship, your worrying too much coz you’re scared of losing him; you won’t. Nothing to worry about, just make sure you’re sending him the right vibes and his yours; respect, trust and honesty, love is better proven than said. Nothing to worry about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2007): As a bloke I often feel I am being distant, whilst at other times I don't. He may simply be quite nervous because of his feelings towards you especially if its been a while since his last relationship. He sounds ok, stick with him and see where it goes, and for goodness sake, don't cheat on him ! If you make your feelings clear to him, it will make him more relaxed about making moves and expressing how he feels for you.
Basically communication is the key ! Though some things do need to go unsaid to keep the 'magic' alive !
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