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After I broke up with my ex I began seeing one of his friends

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Question - (31 August 2018) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 April 2019)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *hdanielle writes:

Rite long story...

me and my ex where together for 6 years. 1 little boy age 4.

we split just about a year ago and it was a nasty split after we broke up i started seeing his friend to which after months he fell in love with me.

i know i hurt him so bad he tryed to take his life after he found out.. ive tryed a few times to ask him forgiveness but hes always said never.

He had another relationship for a few months.. we have got along a few times but over last few weeks we have slept with each other a few times and spoke on viedo calls for hours a day.. i slept over at his house last weekend but nothings being said what we are doing...

he hasnt spoke to me for 2 days and its really bugging me i dont really know how to take it.. he has to pick his son up tomos so i will see him then but its akward...

i would get back with him and miss him sleeping together has brought back so many feelings for me im just not sure its the same for him blowing hot and cold.

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A male reader, Pepi let pew Australia +, writes (28 April 2019):

Pepi let pew agony auntSleeping with his friend after the breakup was wrong. With so many men out there why would you want to do that..? When two people break up the love is still there for a long time afterwards. With this said you need to understand that he is trying to heal from the emotional pain of the break up. Now your sleeping together and he is suffering still. If you really want him back you will need to leave him alone and let him heal. And why he is doing this you will need to control yourself and not sleep with anyone. Take a step back let things cool down only then can you decide what is best for both of you.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (5 September 2018):

aunt honesty agony auntThe relationship ended for a reason. Okay so it might not have been the best decision getting with his friend, but at the end of the day you where both single so you technically didn't do anything wrong. Unless off course you got with his friend to hurt him then that would be another issue.

I don't think it is a good idea getting back together, as I said you both broke up for a reason, has that reason changed? I think you both need to be amicable for your son but I don't think it would be wise to get in to anything, and sleeping together is only going to mess with your head further.

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