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writes: This is what my bf wrote on a text message after we got into an arguement. I was just asking him to stay on the phone with me longer because I felt lonely and he got frustrated and hung up on my face. Here is what he wrote on his text message "You sick disgusting nasty ass f**k you're gross as s**t yuck you f**king whore." I'm thinking that there's no way he likes me anymore right? He also wrote, "okay I gotta go. I'm wasting my time, later b***h." "You're the biggest b***h i've ever met, now i'm def not calling you back, I hate you." "All i'm saying is don't be a crazy b**ch when I don't pick up" "You f**king b**ch I f**king hate you, i'm so happy that we broke up"These are all the text messages he sent me last night. I also gotta admit that while we were in an argument he started callin me names so I got mad and I told him I had sex with other 3 guys. What do you guys think about this? I also hate him because of the way he treats me but I got to pay some bills for this month and i'm not getting enough money from work, but soon i'm gonna start bartending and i'm not gonna need him anymore but right now i need money because I can't borrow the money from anyone else. Any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2006): Did he send those texts after you said you'd slept with 3 other guys? He was wrong to send those messages, but I can kind of understand it. I don't think he's done anything worse than you, to be honest.
It sounds that perhaps you've both gone too far to ever have any kind of relationship together though.
My advice would be that you don't have any contact for a good while at least, you will probably keep arguing until both your emotions have settled down and you can both see things more clearly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2006): Be the bigger person in the relationship right now (if you can call it that)and walk away from this loser!! You don't deserve to be treated or spoke to like that by him or anyone!! Don't bother contacting him again and the first thing you do is go and change your number so he can't contact you and leave those horrible nasty messages for you!!!
Get a loan from the bank/building society/family/friends but don't be in debt to this scum bag cos you will never be rid of him if do take money from him!!! Show him you don't need to rely on him for money or anything!! Its a new year, new start.... move on!!!
hope you have a happy christmas and best of luck with everything!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2006): Ivanna,
You definitely do not need this scumbag! You should drop him as if he were a hot coal you had hold of!
Its hard to be lonely. Maybe you should talk to your mother and see if you can work something out with her so as to be able to move back, at least until you are able to find a place on your own. As Silas says, go to your town center and see what jobs are available - waitressing or bartending - anything rather than depend on your horrible soon to be ex bf!
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reader, Ivanna22 +, writes (21 December 2006):
Ivanna22 is verified as being by the original poster of the question yeah I tried talking to him but even my friedns who heard him on the phone think that he's a phyco. He said that tere's no way we're getting back together and he doesn't wanna be with me anymore and that i'm annoying as hell and stuff. I guess I should just let him go but it's so hard cuz i'm so freaking lonely, I barely have friends that wanna hang out. It's so hard to meet people after high school if u're not in school. If I had more people to hang out with it would be MUCH easier to get over him. For some reason I feel like I need him to feel full. Someone people tell me that i am whole person and that I don't need him and stuff but it's not that easy after 3 years and 5 months. I'm so used to him but i'm really feeling that he wants NOTHING to do with me anymore. I am seeing someone else right now but i'm still not over him thought. This guy is more of a friend thought but he doesn know about my boyfriend that treats me bad. I don't know what to do cuz my mom just kicked me out of the house, i'mm only 18 and I don't wanna live by my self yet. I don't even have friedns around here and I don't have anyone to borrow money from.
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reader, maxsteel86  +, writes (21 December 2006):
 The text messages are enough. Forget this bum, he's a total worthless ass. If you need money desperately, borrow it off friends or take out an overdraft. Being in debt to the bank is way better than being in debt to a scumbag who says all that crap.
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reader, Silas +, writes (20 December 2006):
To me it sounds as tho this guy really needs to relax. All that abuse over a lil thing like that? That really must of hurt...i think what you need to do is meet with him and talk, not argue. i think you should apoligise for the whole 3 guy thing and see what his responce is, if hes man enough he will hold his hands up, say sorry and try to take the realtionship to a healthy front.
On the money front .. in my own experince and the time of year, take yourself down to your town centre and ask for work, either waitressing or bartending, you probs wwill get cash in hand in some places and the job isnt that hard. try hard enough and you should find an opportunity.
all the best.
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