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female
age
36-40,
*lassy girl
writes:Hi guys, so I want to follow up my previous post regarding me and my teacher. Actually yesterday, me and my teacher met a social networking event and we exchanged a few conversations together which was nice. Then I introduced my friend to him, later my friend started talking about me, like i keep telling stuff about my teacher. "She told me that you are a very passionate teacher." He was very surprised and felt kinda strange:" humm that's interesting." Then he told me i should not tell lies to people lol but then i responded that it was actually the truth. I guess he felt kinda flattered by what I told my friend. Then my friend mentioned his major in college and asked why my teacher major in Civil engineering and later decided to become a Asian American civil rights activist. I felt kinda comfortable bc she was hinting that i am interested in him and told her alot of stuff about him. I said to my friend: " i told you a lot of stuff." then everyone laughed, it was funny. BTW to give you guys a little background. my teacher is actually the teaching assistant in my class who is currently a grad student. He is 27 years old and i am 20. He is a very friendly, outgoing person and treat us(students) as friend. we don't really feel there is a barrier among us. So based on that situation, do you guys think that my teacher kinda knows i like him? Man the semester is almost over soon i really want to tell him that i like him. I think of him every single day. Do you all think that i should get to konw him more first, or should i just tell him how i feel about him? This thing is so disturbing to me bc I really want to let him know but am not sure if he feels the same way. If he doesn't, then I will feel disappointed. So yah i need YOUR advice and thanks so much!!
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reader, americanpatriot +, writes (17 November 2010):
 I think you should know him better before you tell him that you're interested in more than friendship. It doesn't sound like you've known him for very long. And guys that are that age have had just enough experience with women to tell by your subconscious body language if you're interested without even being told. Just wait until the semester is over and go to a college function where he will be and strike up a conversation. You really should talk a little more yourself. Using a mediator looks like you have no confidence. Share your career ambitions with him. If the conversation is all about him, then he has nothing to be interested in you about. Be subtle, and don't get in a hurry. If you look like you're trying too hard, he might want to run the other way.
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