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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My ex and I were in a LDR. We broke up last month. It was a bad breakup. I asked him for closure, but he didn't say anything or contact me. I was heartbroken and cried to bed almost every night. I defriended him on Facebook after the breakup and trying to move on. A month later, he added me on Facebook and told me that he's coming back to my country. Part of me thinks that we can never be friends again because he hurt me too much. I forgave him twice when he cheated on me. He gave me commitment then dumped me 2 months before we could see each other. I know he's not worth it and he's going to regret that he won't find someone as nice as me, but part of me wants him to know how great my life is without him. What do I do with this request?
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (10 June 2013):
 I agree DO not let him back in, not in your life and not even on FB, there is no reason to hang on to a guy like this and you DO NOT OWE him friendship or anything else either.
Just block him.
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave  +, writes (10 June 2013):
Ignore the request. Simples.
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reader, Got Issues +, writes (10 June 2013):
 Nooooo. Do not even think about accepting his friend request. Block him. Immediately. Please, for your own sake. Giving him access to your FB page will not make him realise what he's missing, it will just give him an opportunity to wheedle his way back into your life. You've already forgiven him twice for cheating, so to him it's acceptable behaviour. He was the one who dumped you and left you heartbroken, so he's got the upper hand. You will not be able to move on as long as he has any part at all in your life. Please do nothing with the request other than block this cheating scumbag from your Facebook and from your life. Don't give him another chance to use and then dump you. You deserve more.
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