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writes: My boyfriend broke up with me almost a month ago now, we've been dating about two years now (our anniversary would have come up in another like 14 days) and I'm still heartbroken, he's now off with his ex that he dated before me for 6 months, but then didn't talk to her or see her almost the full extent of our relationship. He promised me marriage, kids, etc. I don't understand how he could do something like this, it's like he took a complete personality change, trying to get his life back the way it was two years ago minus me. Where should I go from here, I did everything and anything with him, so It's hard to go out and enjoy time with friends, as much as I want to. Where do I go from here, the last thing he told me was a quote from our first song -for what it's worth, it was worth all the while-
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reader, MeowMix86  +, writes (15 August 2007):
 I'm so sorry you have to go through that. It doesn't seem like he was very honest with you at all. He could have said he wasn't talking to his ex, but apparently he was. I don't think he could just up and remember her out of the blue after two years with you. I had a similar experience, where in my boyfriend of two years up and left me for my best friend at the time! It seemed outta the blue to me too but the truth is, thinking he just woke up and changed his mind one morning is just being naive. All his talk about marriage and kids, a future...I could be wrong but it doesn't sound like he was taking it seriously. But those minute details don't matter, right now all that matters is your broken heart. You have every right to be hurt, and every right to cry. The best thing to do is let yourself be hurt. Talk with friends about it and don't expect yourself to heal over night. Take it day by day. No one can promise you won't be hurt again, and no one can promise he will get what he deserves. But one thing is for certain, You Will Heal. You Will Learn to Trust Again and You Will Be In Love Again. There is someone for you out there who will appreciate your love, trust and loyalty. And he is the person who deserves you. So just remember to hold your head up high, and you will be the better person for coming out of this experience.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (14 August 2007):
 Sorry Honey, but you are just going to weather through this broken heart. Force yourself to go out with your friends. Stay busy. Only time mends a broken heart but you will heal. Some relationships just were not meant to be. You'll come out of this okay, I promise.
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