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age
36-40,
*hocolateTeddy
writes:Hi everyone. I meet a girl a few years back and we were flirty flirty with each other. we became friends and went out on 3 dates. on the first date we were all over each other. it came out the blue. anyway she is a busy person and too used to being on her own. That much we came to terms with. We fell out of communication for 1 year because I just couldn't take the bs anymore. after a year she contacts me and apologizes for everything. I apologized as well for being a douche and not calling or contacting her. 3 months later our feelings for each other haven't changed since the first time we met.She told me she was scared cause she believes she has fallen for me or starting to. I understood and i've been giving her time but maintaining.she told her dad about me which is a big thing, her family knows about me. she tells me shes thinks about me everyday. but heres the issue.We havent seen each other since we started talking again. its been 6 months. everytime I try to set something up shes just too busy. its the same mess from before.I started to believe that i'm just beating a dead horse and started to just keep it at a friendly level and move on, but she pops in and we end up back close again.I don't know what to do in this situation. I'm overlyworked and stressed in my regular life, and I realize how have having a partner balances things out. granted I've been single for 3 years now andI've lost interest in most women. but shes the only one that keeps me.I know shes going through things especially with her feelings and shes soo used to being overwhelmed with work and her personal life as well. but I dont know how we came meet at a between field.Will our lifes ever coexist?OR Should I just keep trying to let her go?what do you ladies think?
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reader, sweetsiepie  +, writes (1 July 2010):
 well hunny even if u 2 dont hit it off in a relationship shes a lucky girl 2 have a gd friend like u who aint given up give her time shes prob scared and prob dont understand her feelings if ur meant 2 be trust me it'll happen x
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2010): I think you should let her go, this is going nowhere. She is just toying with you, nobody is that busy. It's time to get out there and find your interest in women again.
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