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writes:My partner want to make physical relation with me and it will be my first time experience so what are the cautions which i 'll keep in my mind. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2011): Well, I'm going to assume this is a committed relationship you're referring to. First of all make sure you are ready. Don't do it just because your partner wants to. Second, remember that "making physical relations" will most likely change your relationship. Talk to your partner and make sure both of you are okay with this and that you both know where the relationship will go. Third, keep in mind the risks of STIs and potential pregnancy and what you're going to do to mitigate these risks. Having sex for the first time is a big decision, just make sure you've considered the pros and cons of it before going through with it. Enjoy!
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reader, MamaBear  +, writes (29 March 2011):
You sound like you are not quite certain if this is what you really want from your partner. If you have any doubts, don't do it! To answer your question about cautions. Caution #1: make sure you have protected sex. You do not want a baby in the picture, do you? Caution #2: make certain this will not be just a one-time experience. Is he a serious partner who will be there for an ongoing sexual relationship? Caution #3: what if you do not enjoy this first time experience, then what? Caution #4: if you have any doubts, I repeat, do not enter into any physical act till you are ready.
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