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writes:Hello!There is this one guy in one of my classes and we always have tension, we are always giving eye contact. And today we finally spoke and I told him I thought he was really cute and he said I am as well! I feel like a child again I used to never be shy but I dont know whats going on. I found him on facebook, I wanna add him but Im scared if he would think im creepy? I need guy advice! We are both 19 years old turning 20. So would it be weird if I all of a sudden added him on facebook even though we have NO mutual friends what-so-ever? Or should I just wait until next class to talk to him?
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave  +, writes (4 April 2012):
Have a couple more chats with him first before adding him on Facebook, then you shouldn't feel unsure.
As for having no mutual friends, that is irrelevant.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (4 April 2012):
 I dont think it would be weird, you have spoken to him so its not like you are adding a complete stranger.
But if it would make you feel better wait until you speak to him again, then add him.
Its only Facebook, its not the end of the world! Do what you want, it really doesnt matter.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2012): As a young single guy id say it never hurts to get added by a cute girl, but if your worried about looking creepy, to make yourself more comfortable, give it a few days. Its not like facebook runs away and you have class with him everyday. Talk to him in class a few times then add him, then its no big D lol. But honestly if you know he is eyeing you up and he payed a compliment back to you, i highly dought he'll think thats creepy. More likely make him nervous perhapes because you two havent talked to much, maybe better to talk a bit more in class first.
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