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anonymous
writes:my boyfriend and i been together nearly 5 months, ghe used to want to spend loads of time with me, we went out to lots of places, now he has 2 jobs and we see each other once a week, i understand he has to work, but now he always wants to do is be with his friends, i've already talked to him about it and he just says oh dump me, i'm trying my best! it sounds like he wants me to, i really love him and i love being with him, he always promises me to treat me better, but he doesn't, i don't know what to do? he says he loves me, but i don't know whether to accept it and stay with him and hardly see him or just dump him. please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2008): look i'm not being selfish i perfectly understand he has to work!! i'm not taling about that! i just want to spend more than once a week with him isn't that perfectly normal? thanks for the help though , without having to be so harsh x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2008): Sorrz you probally dont want to hear this but STOP BEING SO DAMN SELFISH hes out making a living how can you not expect him to want time with his mates. See it from hes point of view
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reader, Befuddled1 +, writes (22 August 2008):
 I think you should concentrate on having a bloody good time with your mates and join a netball team and learn Italian and do overtime to pay for a girly holiday...anyway you get the idea!
Do stuff you want, then...you'll not only stop dwelling on what he's doing but he will find you much more interesting, excting and want to keep an eye on you girl!
Good luck and enjoy yourself, rediscover who you were before he came along
xx
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