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writes:after a long day of sketchy and questionable behavior from my husband he *finally* came home *late*. ive been having this uneasy feeling lately that theres foul play going on but aside from all the red flags, this is what i came here to ask. SO, my drunk husband finally gets home, undresses, and prepares to collapse into our bed when i notice a large wet spot on his boxers. when i placed my hand inside of his boxers to get a feel of the consistancy (LOL sounds crazy but hes got a long record people!!) , i noticed that it felt just like semen. i check his clothes for booty dust (glitter) for signs of a strip club lap dance but i found nothing. his white shirt had traces of dark foundation (any woman can tell the difference between makeup and dirt!)and a very faint pink lipstick along the bottons of his shirt which i found strange but no glitter. so what i want to know is, has any woman out there had there husband come home late with *wet* stains *inside* of his boxers before and was he cheating? im honestly confused..the spots on his shirt look like he had his shirt unbottoned while receiving a bj and some makeup residue accidentally got rubbed off on the bottom of his shirt during any erractic head movements (LOL) but why are the stains in there? i mean it was literally like he came in his pants...theres no other way i can describe it
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (28 June 2012):
 As Aunty Em says, that's pretty bad evidence against him. Makeup on his clothes, semen in his underwear... let's see him try and talk his way out of this one (he can't).
Then it all comes down to what you see as cheating. If it were me, and I found out he got a lap dance, that wouldn't be a deal breaker, but I would be PISSED. Most lap dances are entertaining, but not so entertaining that they cum in their pants! So that would tick me off, but it wouldn't end a relationship. But, if some other woman have him a BJ or something, I'd be furious.
I'd ask him, and see what story he tells you. Continue to listen to your instincts and do what feels right.
Good luck!
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (28 June 2012):
 Makeup on his clothes and semen in his pants?...that there is some pretty damning evidence of cheating...whether it's from a lap dancer or someone else.
Question is what are you going to do now?
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