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writes:I'm sexually invloved w a neighbor for several yrs. I finally verbally admitted I care and love him and He must know it . I stroke his ego via text alot to make him feel confident.So I sent him a text yesterday telling him how wonderful he is and that I loved him. He replied "please dont text I'm in meeting You are annoying" that hurt my feelings . Especually when I went out of my way to write something sweet to boost his ego and tell him I loved him hewrote I was annoying don't text. Didnot even write or say thank you. guess I should not ever text him and or just stay away correct
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2011): I would be annoyed that he had been so rude, he could have just ignored your text as he was busy. He is using you and your good nature. If he contacts you be sure to show him that you are upset. But be careful, he doesn't sound like he has your best interests at heart.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (10 March 2011):
When you tell a man you love him, and all he can say is "I'm in a meeting - don't text. You are annoying" - the time has come for you to move on.
It's become clear that you are this man's plaything and prop, rather than anything else. You say a lot of good things, and you give him the attention - that's all he wants. Nothing more.
I would stop seeing this guy and look elsewhere for love. This guy couldn't care at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2011): CORRECT! You are being used. Wake up and smell the coffee.
You obviously go to a lot of trouble to stroke his ego, but what does he do for you (apart from the sex)?
Don't demean yourself for anyone. Find someone who is worthy of your love and affection.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (10 March 2011):
 Correct. This man doesn't care about you. Why are you trying so hard to stroke his ego? He seems to me like he's got a big enough ego as it is, it doesn't need to be stroked. He needs to be put in place, that's what he needs. But not by you. You will do yourself a favour by staying away from this man. He's just using you, and he is honest with you about how he feels for you as well: you are annoying, and he doesn't appreciate you in any way. Believe what he has said now and move on for your own good.
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reader, uncle bob  +, writes (10 March 2011):
 Your too old for this, it's time to move on.
It sounds like he was comfortable with the relationship the way it was. However, now that you've said that you love him, you've changed the equation.
No longer are you the convenient "SEX TOY" next door.
You've taken this relationship to a level he's no longer comfortable with.
Start getting prepared to say Goodbye, and get on with your new life!
I wish you all the best.
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