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A hypothetical! What would a guy think about something like this?

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Question - (16 January 2014) 4 Answers - (Newest, 17 January 2014)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

This is a question for guys.

Lets say a not so attractive girl tried to invite herself along for lunch,stammered and then in the end couldn't do it.Would you feel angry,irritated or wonder "how dare she tried to invite herself along" if you are in the popular gang and she is from the nerd gang.

Honest answers are really welcome however harsh they might be.

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A male reader, BrownWolf Canada +, writes (17 January 2014):

BrownWolf agony auntI am sorry you felt the need to word the question the way you did. If you “think” you are unattractive, then that is how you will feel. But if you “think” and know you are an amazing person, then others will see it, and treat you as such.

You know who the ugliest people are? The ones who disrespect their parents and other people. Who judge everyone but not themselves. The ones who think they should get whatever they want and don’t care who they have to back stab to get it. The ones who think they are sooo popular, and throw away their own dignity to get attention.

If you are think of becoming popular…don’t. Look at the popular movie stars and singers…what has it done for them?? Rehab, drugs, divorce, overdose, and all kinds of self-destructive things. Never lose yourself to makes friends. Real friends accept you as you are.

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A male reader, Xearo Trinidad and Tobago +, writes (17 January 2014):

I think most guys would not really care, but would instead be perplexed by that girl's actions.

Your thoughts "how dare she invited herself" are more what girls think.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2014):

@Iamheretohelpyou:Thanks for understanding the question here.

Thanks for the answer.

I am the OP.I am not sure if I expressed myself right here.But I am the girl who tried to invite herself along for the lunch and couldn't do it.Thanks for the advise.I am sure it was incredibly awkward for him as well.Hopefully I can hide from him and never see him for the rest of my life.

@Brown Wolf:I am sorry that I couldn't word the question right.I am the girl who described herself as not so attractive.The guy has been more than kind to me.Lets not bad mouth him.I am hoping if I can hide away from him and never see him again,it would get better after a few months.

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A male reader, BrownWolf Canada +, writes (16 January 2014):

BrownWolf agony aunt

She wanted to come along, but was too shy to ask. You on the other hand saw the situation and did nothing.Why didn’t you step up and invite her…popular guy?? Be popular for being kind to others, and helping those who are less fortunate that you. Nerds are always better to hang with…why? They use their brains, not their looks. I would choose wisdom and intelligence of popularity any day.

That same girl you called unattractive, she may end up being your boss one day…GOD does have a sense of humor.

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