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female
age
30-35,
missmatador
writes:Gentlemen! I introduce to you one of the most beautiful and complex of relationships known to the modern world: The love between a Girl and her Gay.Oh, you can insist that you know what she wants, when she wants it and how she wants it. But trust me, a gargantuan 90% per cent of the time, you and your hetero-male brain are really just playing the great guessing game of "What a girl wants."Now...if you're not singing along with an internal theme tune of Christina Aguilera at this very moment then you are currently experiencing one of the main deficiencies you have as the straight-man to your girlfriends homo-needs. Not that you don't have a passion for late 90's Pop...but that the ridiculous notion of singing a line actually solidifies it's presence in time. YES! IT IS THAT IMPORTANT!Of course, let's avoid the Will and Grace stereotype: The connection between your lady friend and her slightly effeminate counterpart does not spawn from her undying need to have a male prance about the mall with her like an over-excited spaniel announcing that every item of clothing she touches is "FIERCE!!!!"And it is certainly not so she can indulge in flamboyant prancing around the street with someone who is considered completely outrageous and taboo!I may speak from my own relationship with my gay best friend that he is the combination of everything I enjoy in a man with none of that platonic friendship questioning. Are they, aren't they? Will they, won't they? The truth is, yes we are...but we're really not. And we totally will...but we really won't!There are no inhibitions, no untold intimacies yet to be explored and absolutely, positively no complications when it comes to the discussions of life, universe and everything.There is a mutual understanding between a Hag and her Fag: You can get Straight to the point without Bending round any corners.
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