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A friend has a crush on a guy. I would like to see them become a couple. Or should I help her to get over him?

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Question - (30 December 2016) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 January 2017)
A female Pakistan age 22-25, *zeeyamin writes:


My problem is that my best friend is obsessed with her crush and I am obsessed with getting them together.

All we both do is talk about this GUY.

My friend's obsession is quite understandable because she had a breakup and was very depressed.

But why am I obsessed?

What is my gain?

I helped her in making them friends. she has not been successful in getting them into a relationship.

Help US get over him. Help!

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (4 January 2017):

aunt honesty agony auntI guess you just want to see your friend happy, which is lovely but it is also not healthy to obsess over one guy who might not even be interested in her. You both need to find something else to do with your time. Try new things, meet new people and pick new topics to talk about.

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A female reader, Aunty Susie Australia +, writes (30 December 2016):

Aunty Susie agony auntThe best way to break a habit is to create a new one. Find a new interest - preferably not boy orientated - and get involved. Distraction to start with, then hopefully both your minds will be filled with new adventures. Join both of you up for a beginners class in something - photography or short story writing. You'll meet new people and move on with your lives. Maybe even discover new talents.

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