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I want to chat with him, but afraid to embarrass myself

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Question - (26 February 2005) 4 Answers - (Newest, 7 March 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

There is a boy that I really like and I think he likes me too and I want to ask him out but he's always with his mates. I dont want to embarrass myself in front of them.

So could you suggest some ways for me to chat him?

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A reader, Ali, writes (7 March 2005):

Hi,

I'm in exactly the same situation. I'm 16 and I'm in my last year at school. I've known this lad since the year before and i've been to embarrassed to ask him out as well. So basically I sat down with him and said ''look i really like you and I've thought about asking you out but i wasn't sure how you felt about me'' and so he told me exactly how he felt. But be prepared to end up back in the same place, because I know i have. Good Luck xxxx

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A reader, Lisa Ferraro, writes (28 February 2005):

You must really like this guy to not want to ruin anything with him or his friends but my advice is really go for it because you would be kicking yourself otherwise. You wont really embarress yourself if you pull him away from his friends, get him on his own (when guys are on there own they act differently).

I dont think you can embarress yourself that much but ive been there and have to admit its hard to walk past and say hi as you are scared he wont return the greeting. good luck. (you wont need it) x

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A reader, natasha, writes (27 February 2005):

first of all why dont u try to get him on his own e.g. when he goes to the toilet or to the shop and ask him if he would like to meet up for a drink as friends. if u can not get him on his own try smiling or askin a friend to talk to his friends and walk over to them and join in the coversation. but watever you do, do not send a txt mgs or email it shows a imiture side like ure to shy or your not confident in yourself try this and if not email me good luck xnatshax

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2005):

go up to him when hes by himself even if its a really stupid situation and tell or write him a note an have someone give it to him for you so you wont embarass yourself.

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