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I enjoy sex, but my drive has dropped to zero. Suggestions?

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Question - (12 February 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 February 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

HELP!!!!

My sex drive has gone from high to non-existant. I still fancy my partner of 3 years and do enjoy sex when we start, but I don't have the urge to start anything myself.

Please help as I'm dying to get our relationship back on track.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2005):

Hi, Maybe you are stressed out..get some quality time together, go on a short vacation & focus on each other. Get a good book that has playful ideas..discuss which ones you like and do them. Take turns giving each other an oil massage by candlelight. sleep on silk sheets, serve each other breakfast in bed..take turns leaving loving notes. Play sensous music & dance. Get dressed up, have a night on the town, in a resturant that is quiet, has soft music playing..that over looks the city and talk to each other, looking into each others eyes..like you used to. Sometimes you think the fire is out..but the embers are still smoultering. Something good will happen, if you make it..ENJOY! [email address blocked]

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A reader, patti, writes (13 February 2005):

try new things maybe. something different then what you are doing. watch a porn movie or go online. something to boost your sex drive.

you under alot of stress? that could do it.

or maybe go see a professional and see what or where the problem lies.

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