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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I am 34 year old professional woman who never had a boyfriend in my life. Yeap, that's right.I am not fat (5.4ft 120lbs) and I am pretty satisfied with how I look people say. I've been on several dates before and a few guys have asked me out before but I declined because I wasn't interested in them a bit.It will be really nice to have a guy that I like and who likes me back as my boyfriend or husband already. I've just never been liked by the person I really liked and now I am afraid that maybe guys that I like will never like me back in the future and I will eventually just end up going out with a person who I don't even like that much just because I can't get the guy I want and force myself to like him and maybe my marriage will be like that too.I just want for once that the guy I like will like me back just so that I know, that I can be liked by somebody I like too. I just want that assurance. Just want to know that I deserve to be liked by somebody I like. Or is it I do not deserve to go out with somebody I like?? Are there certain girls who deserve it and who don't? The last guy I had something with I liked him and he showed like he liked me too, but he ended up being a player who was dating me and another chick and ended up picking up this other girl over me B/C he said she has the skin color he likes and has a good social position, so even this stupid player didn't liked me back.I am so sad... and so depressed that no guy that I ever like will like me back..
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2015): i'm 27 and never had a girlfriend, and you have my deepest sympathy, empathy, and at the same time i'm shocked because usually it seems more men than women do reach this age and still being single, never dated before.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2012): Man, where are these women when I go looking? I have only had a couple of relationships in my life and I am your age. Every woman I meet has dozens of notches on the bedpost and all the personal baggage that brings with it.
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reader, Pretty and proud  +, writes (28 May 2012):
 Try speed dating, everyone is there for the same reason and everyone is nervousr, go with a friend, if you don't find anyone, at least you can have a laugh
Good luck x
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