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writes: HeyI'm nearly twenty and still a virgin. I've been in a relationship with the same guy for almost a year now, and we are in love. Problem is he's also a virgin, and everytime we've tried sex, it hasn't worked. He says this is because I always draw in my breath sharply in pain and then he feels he must stop because he'd hate to hurt me. but it should hurt right?I knoww we're both lacking in experience,, but still i want to make it work with him rather than finding a guy who knows what he's doing.Any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2005): At least he is thinking of you. Maybe the time just isn't right yet, it's a big thing the first time around. Maybe you need to set the mood first and make sure everything else is ok-contraception etc so therefore there is nothing to be worried about to begin with. It will happen but if you try to force it with each other it may take away the romance try being intimate first-then it might lead u on into having sex.
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